We’ve just booked our wedding venue for 50 people. We’ve decided not to invite aunts and uncles, and not get bogged down in “if we invite x person we have to invite the whole group”, which I do want to stand by…
We’re about to send our save the dates (18months in advance as it’s a sort-of destination) to what we’re calling our A* list of 42 people, so they can potentially book accommodation now, leaving 8 spots to decide upon about a year or so in advance. However, some of these A* people are in the same friendship groups as our B listers and in some cases even live in house shares with each other. I feel like we need to be prepared so B listers don’t expect invites or know what to say or people ask us where their STD is… how have people handled this situation? With definite B listers and also undecideds who might make it onto the A list?
P.S. Already having to deal with this on the family side as FMIL not keen on aunts and uncles not being invited and seems to think 50 is plenty of space for everyone she’s ever met so is even making FH feel guilty about not inviting her friend’s kid who he’s not spoken to in years but pparently is gonna be inviting FH to his wedding 🤕
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