Small wedding stress

You absolutely do NOT need to 'put more effort in' now that family are invited. Yes, they need feeding, but it doesn't have to be fancy. Stick with the picnic idea or find a nice local pub or cafe that will do a meal.

I do think it's worth having a conversation with your OH about how you want the wedding to look though. It seems that it is his actions which have resulted in the wedding being larger than you wanted. There's nothing wrong with two people wanting different things for their wedding, but you do need to discuss it and work out a plan together, otherwise you may find him filling up that 40-person venue to capacity before you know it!

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Explore Nearby Options: Research other venues in Cornwall that can accommodate your larger group. Even if they're not beachfront, they might offer a charming setting that suits your vision. Contact Local Caterers: Reach out MGH Patient Gateway to local caterers who specialize in outdoor weddings or picnics. They can provide food and drink options tailored to your event. Potluck Style: Consider a potluck-style reception where guests bring their own food and drinks. This can be a fun and casual way to celebrate with a larger group.

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