How many people are you inviting to your wedding?
we have a minimum guest list for the day of 45 if the venue can hold more that might go up to 50 or 60 and then on a night we might invite some more friends as some will leave before the end so over all we expect about 60 maximum at any one time - when googling this it come back with 'tiny', 'intimate', 'small', 'budget' etc... and thats got me confused
at no other party would you say 60 is a small number ? if you had a house party, bbq or birthday and 60 people showed up it would be crazy, I always though of small as under 30 and tiny or intimate as 10 or so
so now im wondering if this is 'small' then whats average or big?
im not sure I could find enough people I can tolerate to invite over 60 ?
also is it automatically assumed that a wedding with 50 people is due to cheap budget or lots of drop outs as thats what people keep saying on blogs and such... because its neither of those for us I just honestly dont see the point of inviting neighbors, grannies friends, the school pta, your old driving instructor and that kid you had a play date with when you where 2 to the wedding- now im wondering if im just a misery guts or a billy no mates lol