Ok, so the answers to these may be pretty obvious but they've got me thinking.
1. Is it acceptable to hand out invitations rather than post them. It seems silly for OH to post invitations to his work colleagues when he sees them every day.
2. How do you "bump up" an evening guest? If, after having RSVPs back, we've got space for some evening people to attend the day, how do we let them know? Would it be best to wait to send evening invitations out for a while and then they need never know? The problem with this is that our friends talk! If evening guests don't receive an invitation for a while after the day guests, they'll think they aren't being invited at all. If we're in this situation would it just be best to be honest & explain to them?
3. Morning suit - OH's morning coat and trousers are the same colour. Most of the others I've seen though have a different colour trousers. Am I being stupid here? What is the norm?
I'm sure I will have more to add to this list before long ?
