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Beginner November 2023 Northamptonshire

Stag do help

Francesca, 12 September, 2023 at 23:13 Posted on Planning 1 2
Hey so my Husband to be is going on his stag in 3 weeks. I am feeling funny about a lap dance and worried my husband to be won’t tell me.
How do I overcome this?
I find it so disrespectful and hurtful. I’m fine with strippers but not engaging with my partner.

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Latest activity by Francesca, 13 September, 2023 at 10:05
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    Expert November 2022 Lincolnshire
    Hayley ·
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    Do you know what the plans are for the stag do? You may be worrying over nothing if a stripper isn't going to be there at all. Not all men like lap dances so it may not happen anyway.


    Have you shared your concerns with your fiance? You should be able to talk to him about this and ask him to respect your wishes that it makes you uncomfortable. If you asked him a direct question the morning after then he should be honest, so at least if it does happen then you know about it. It sounds like part of your fear is the worry of the unknown if it happened or not.
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    Beginner November 2023 Northamptonshire
    Francesca ·
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    I agree. Might be nothing to worry about.
    However my husband is on the view if it’s arranged he has to go along with it as it’s a “ stag”.
    Apart from keeping myself extra busy I’m not sure how to deal with it.
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