Stressing!!

We’ve booked our wedding for abroad… when we were looking at it last year and asked everyone said they would come now it’s come to booking it my OH mates have all now said no. I feel guilty as none of his mates are coming and just a small amount of family!
He says he isn’t bothered but I’m getting stressed that people are going to judge him and us. I have a couple of friends coming but otherwise it is mostly family. I don’t want people to think they have wasted their money coming out. It’s really starting to get me down as this is what we have always wanted to do but feel like the wedding is going to get judged because it’s so small without any of my OHs mates am I panicking over nothing or what’s peoples thoughts!