We're getting married in June so ages until the stag and hen dos yet...but we've been discussing them a bit. I feel pretty strongly about my fiance going to a strip club or having a stripper...I definitely don't want one at my hen and I just think the idea of spending money (especially when the wedding costs so much) to have a naked woman dancing in his face just before we get married is not really ok with me. I actually hate the idea of it. He kind of agrees that it's a bit weird and uncomfortable although I'm sure he's partly saying it for the easy life! I think his friends will definitely try to persuade him to go for it.
I don't want us to have a big fall out over it but I really don't want him to have a stripper - am I being a bit unfair? Did/does anyone else feel like this? What did you do? I feel like I should just let it go as I'd rather he went and I knew than he went anyway and lied about it or resented it. But I know it will really bother me.
