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surprise hen party - good thing or really really bad thing!?!?!

abbietopping, 27 September, 2010 at 14:47 Posted on Planning 0 3

Right fellow brides to be - I am having my monday stress out, and this is what has transpired over the weekend -

My 2 bridesmaids have been huddling together and have come up with a 'surprise' for me for my hen do!!! Aggghhhhhhhhh I hate surprises!!!

They have only given me one clue, which will help me to decide who I want to invite - but it's still causing issues already! I have been assured by my h2b (who has been brought into the secret circle) that I will love it, and that it being a surprise is so much better for what it involves. But - I am worried about the other people that are to be inviting, and whether they are going to hate it or love it - because I don't know what it is!!! And my bridesmaids don't know some of my friends so they can't be in a position to judge.

Am I worrying about this too much!?

help! x

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Latest activity by Flowmojo, 27 September, 2010 at 14:53
  • debmci
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    It will be fab! Mine was a surprise! well most of it! Some ppl gave away a few bits here and there, but all in all it was really good! If your OH is in the loop, as mien was, he wont let anything bad happen, or anything that you wouldnt approve of I am sure! I did fret a bit about whether or not it would ever be organised, but the girlies did a FAB job! 1 of them is not even BM at my wedding, she was my housemate for a while, and is my sisters best friend!! Just sit back and relax, and you will really enjoy it!!

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  • MrsMac2be
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    I must admit I would worry to, all I want for my hen night/weekend is for myself, bridesmaids, close girlie friends to go away for a spa weekend. Im not into this dressing up and clubbing stuff so I would be worried too!

    I know that doesnt help you at ALL but just a little moral support from my end to you!?

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    Definatly Smiley smile

    if your BM are close to you then theyl plan wisely...i was a BM earlier this eyar for my best mate and had full reign over the hen do...i know exactly whats shes like dod idnt plan anything too wild or mental for her...im sure your BMs will do the same. And if theyve run it past h2b and he thinks its a good idea, that should reassure you?!

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