That feeling...

Hello everyone! I was wondering if you have experienced "that feeling" when you have found your wedding venue? I will try to keep it brief.
I was engaged to my ex partner, and we viewed a country house that host weddings that I have ALWAYS wanted to get married at since I can remember. I was glad when he loved it as much as me, so we booked it. Long story short, our relationship ended due to his infidelity (thank GOD I didn't marry him!) and I am now newly engaged to my current partner and at the very start of our wedding planning. He would like to get married in a country house, and we have viewed two, both that are absolutely lovely and within budget. But. I cannot shake the feeling that I just didn't get "that feeling" when I saw either of them. They were beautiful and I could see myself getting married there, but deep in my stomach I am so sad I will not be getting married at my dream venue! I have mentioned this to my fiancé but he doesn't even want to entertain going to view it, because it was the planned venue for me and my ex. It wasn't like we got married there or anything but he doesn't like the thought of it so will not budge.

What I am getting at is am I just after a feeling I am not going to get, or do I need to look at more venues?
Thanks if you have got this far! Sending love x