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Third time lucky

Rosie, 19 April, 2021 at 11:26 Posted on Planning 0 1

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Hi everyone, I'm a long-time lurker on these forums but I thought it was about time I made myself a profile and joined in the conversation!

I'm a covid bride and after postponing twice (originally summer 2020, then early 2021 and now autumn 2021) I'm finding myself getting more optimistic by the day with restrictions set to lift and the rollout of the vaccine, but there's still very much a worry hanging over me that it could all be taken away at the final hurdle once again.

We completely stopped wedding planning when we postponed the first time, the stress was too much and it was the break we both needed. Now we are six months away from being third time lucky, the stress is beginning to creep back in and it's not just the worry about the pandemic!

How are you finding getting back into the swing of things with planning again if you've postponed because of covid/otherwise?

I'd love to hear from others in the same boat!

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Latest activity by Kay, 19 April, 2021 at 16:16

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Kay · 19 April, 2021 at 16:16
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Hey Rosie,
We're on our third date and have been the same - put planning on hold until the roadmap was announced and after a day of great excitement and action we found out it couldn't actually go ahead unless it was outdoors.... I cried and felt pretty down for a little while and really couldn't get back into thinking about it. Then got back on it and booked in a new date and realised nothing has changed, except the date (it took a bit of Pinteresting to get me excited again though).
There's still the possibility it won't go ahead when we want but I'm just planning like it will and trying to stay positive - all the planning and crafting brings me joy so that's what I've been focussing on.
You already know you're pretty resilient after 2 date changes so you know you'll be able to handle another if it comes to it. Just keep a positive mindset. ?
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