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Titled Bridesmaid

Jayne, 15 November, 2023 at 16:47 Posted on Planning 0 2
Hi!


So, I’m in the middle of planning my bridesmaid proposals, and I plan on having 5 in total (3 friends, 2 family members).
My issue is, that 3 of these are in my close friendship group of 4 people (including myself). 2 of the girls, I had planned on having as titled bridesmaids (MOH/Chief Bridesmaid), as I’ve been through school with them, grown up together etc, but it leaves a sour taste in my mouth at not having my 3rd friend as a bridesmaid with a title.
I’m having the dilemma of, I couldn’t choose just one person to be MOH, and I unfortunately am unable to rely on my family members to step up into the role which is why I’ve chosen my 2 friends to be that role, however I’m unsure what to do about my 3rd friend, as I do love her & she is a very close friend of mine, but I feel like having 3 titled in a group of 5 is too much 🫣 but I also don’t want her feeling some kind of way about it!
Does anyone have any suggestions on what I can do, or am I overthinking it altogether?
Thanks!

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Latest activity by RomanticGreenStationery27135, 15 November, 2023 at 21:40
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    Rockstar July 2024 Cumbria
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    I would just make them all bridesmaids! I was the bridesmaid of my best friend and her sister was maid of honour but I was the one who did all the planning. I have 4 bridesmaids. 2 sisters and 2 best friends and they’re all doing something. Off their own back though. I’m not someone who expects anything. I just didn’t want someone to be more than the other and made them all the same.
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    Genius July 2020 Monmouthshire
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    I agree with Shay - just make them all bridesmaids.

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