I'm having a massive dilemma at the moment, and I'm not sure what to do...
I don't expect anyone here to tell me what to do, but I think I just need to get this off my chest. Sorry if this is a bit long!
So our wedding is on August 22nd, we've been engaged since 2015 (!) and we finally booked our venue in 2019 so we'd have enough time to save up for our wedding this year. My family live abroad, and we were hoping our wedding would be a nice big party where the two different sides can finally meet for the first time.
Throw in a pandemic and all those plans have been washed away!
We have been closely following all the government announcements regarding Covid guidelines and travel restrictions, but so far it looks like my family will not be able to come to my wedding in August. And I doubt the rules will change enough for them to be able to come over (none of them can afford to quarantine in the UK for 10 days, then possibly have to do the same when they return home). I haven't seen them in a year, and was really hoping we could have a big "reunion" at our wedding.
So I'm probably looking at having my wedding without my parents and siblings, which is leaving me very sad and anxious. The only people who would be at the wedding would be my partner's friends (I'm friends with them through him) and his colleagues. His only family are his Mum and brothers and they might not be able to come either because of health issues...
On top of all this, and if things weren't bad enough already, I have just found out that I will probably be made redudant soon. This puts a huge strain on our finances. We've already spent thousands of pounds and still have lots to come out (catering, photographer to be paid tomorrow, a band, florist, accommodation, dress (have my alterations on Saturday),...). We have wedding insurance in place, and I think they cover for redundancy, though I'm not sure how much they would cover exactly. But that means cancellation/rearrangement might be an option.
However I'm not sure I could go through all this again. We have everything in place for our wedding to go ahead, even if it is a shitty version of what we wanted and without the people we want there. Our venue doesn't have any available dates until after 2023 anyway, so we'd be waiting for years again, putting everything on hold. And because of Brexit rules my family and friends would all have to buy passports to be able to travel here after September, putting an extra barrier on everything.
I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place and I don't know what to do. :'(