Hi, I have a problem with if we should have my Dad's fiancée (so my soon to be step mum) on the top table. The back story is my Mum died about 2 and a half years ago. My dad started seeing his fiancée about an year ago so the engagement came as a shock but that is a different story. My brother is all getting married about five months after I am and they have told my Dad that his fiancée will not be on the top table. My Dad is not happy about this so it is causing soon problems. I agree with my brother the top table sit should be my Mum's and as she can not be there I don't really want anybody taking her seat. We have nothing against my Dad's fiancée we all like her and have no problem with her sitting in the front row with my Dad in the ceremony. The other issue is she has twin teenage boys who are very shy and won't know a lot of people at the wedding so it would be better for them to have their mum sitting with them. The problem that I need help with is how do I tell my Dad that I also don't want his fiancée on the top table without starting an argument? I don't want to upset my Dad or cause problems between us so should I just have his fiancée on the top table to keep the peace or tell my dad she will not be on the top table and he will have to except that?
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