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UK Online Officiants - where can they marry?

MummyWifeyBoo, 21 June, 2015 at 22:22 Posted on Planning 0 8

And how does it all work!!?

Hi, this is my very first post (am on my iPhone, and cant seem to find the function to search the forum?!) -
I really want one of my very best friends in my wedding party but she would be very uncomfortable being a bridesmaid & wearing a dress, so i came up with the idea to have her PERFORM my wedding.. Have said i'd pay for it to be done online, but i'm unsure of the UK LEGALITIES & really how it all works etc -

Could one of you lovelies please point me in the right direction? (forums, website etc) - i currently like in Hertfordshire, UK.

Ta, Dx

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Latest activity by Simply Ceremonies Uk, 22 June, 2015 at 22:02
  • Helenia
    Beginner September 2011
    Helenia ·
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    Not possible in England/Wales - weddings have to be performed by a proper registrar or their deputy. I'm not totally sure of the rules in Scotland, I know that humanist weddings are legally binding and they don't have the restrictions on licensed venues that England/Wales do, but I'm pretty sure that they still don't allow online-based officiants. It's not like the USA, I'm afraid.

    Alternatives would be to have a small registry office ceremony and then have your friend do some kind of blessing/affirmation/handfasting etc service afterwards, or something simpler like just have her do a reading or be a witness for you.

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  • snow bride
    Beginner June 2016
    snow bride ·
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    Legally not possible in England I'm afraid!

    However we are doing similar. We've having a tiny legal bit the day before and then our friend will be marrying us at our wedding (not legal, but we don't care!) Smiley smile

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  • Karen84
    Beginner July 2016
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    You could ask her to be a witness so that she still has an important role, but without having to wear a dress.

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  • InkedDoll
    VIP January 2015
    InkedDoll ·
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    I think too many American sitcoms have featured people getting ordained online and marrying their friends. That's the only explanation for people here thinking it's a real thing.

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  • L
    Beginner October 2014
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    She might not be able to but I'm sure joey might be available

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  • halloweeny
    Beginner October 2013
    halloweeny ·
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    What IF said.

    This is not possible...You can't get ordained online.

    your friend could do a speech or be a witness or do a reading.

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  • Chucklevision
    Beginner July 2015
    Chucklevision ·
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    What's already been said, afraid amercian TV shows have duped you!.

    Perhaps she could be a witness?

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  • MrsShep
    Beginner September 2014
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    The girls have covered the fact that it's an American sitcom ism. Have you spoken to her? My best friend wouldn't wear a dress and have the attention on her for everyone, but she did for me. Also, you could have your legal bit and then get her to be a celebrant (a lot of people in here are opting to do this now) but I imagine she'd be way more uncomfortable doing that!!

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    Simply Ceremonies Uk ·
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    Hi, the way it would work is the same as if you use an Independent celebrant like myself.

    You would need to get the legal marriage registration done beforehand ( most of my clients do this a few days before) then your friend can perform the ceremony for you as the officiant.

    i would be happy to go through this with you if you want it explained a bit more

    my email address is ******@************.**.**

    karina x

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