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Hayley
Dedicated August 2024 East Sussex

Venue

Hayley, 3 February, 2022 at 19:11 Posted on Planning 0 4
So we have found a few venues we like in our price range.


Our first one is a hotel in london I love it The pros for this place are Great in the summerGorgeous Great ammount of space Lovely people.Great for photosGreat menu (not that I can pronounce anything)But the cons are.....Alot of my side of the family wont drive that far wedding or no wedding It will mean we might have to lower how much we spend on a honey moon for hotels People are traveling with kids
Then we have wadhurst castle ProsBeautiful Big Outdoor ceremonies Goes great with our them Fell in love at first viewing Great people Calm areaFrench town which is wonderful Comes with suggested caterersWont need hotelsGreat for photosConsAgain quite far for some family members Might lose a child easily (it's like 30-60 acres of land) Again people are travelling with kids
Next is manor barn Pros Gorgeous gardens Does ceremoniesGreat for photos Close to families homes Wont need hotels Comes with a roll Royce's with driver (not that its needed) Has a wonderful menu ConsSmall hall Very public In a town with alot of kids

Were struggling to choose as the pros for every single one definitely outweighs the cons.
Help what do you think?????

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Latest activity by Hayley, 3 February, 2022 at 21:10
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    VIP April 2022 Wiltshire
    Charlotte ·
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    It seems you prefer the options that are a bit further out, but your driving factor is people not willing to travel. We are having our ceremony 1h 15m away and whilst it means travel it is where we want it. Surely if you give enough notice and there are affordable hotels nearby your family will come? I feel sad for you that they won't, maybe sound them out and see, when it comes to it I would like to think they will come. You need to pick what you want and not let others feelings or opinions factor in to it, that said, if you are sure they won't come and that is a big deal for you then look elsewhere, but don't compromise to much to accommodate others
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    Dedicated August 2024 East Sussex
    Hayley ·
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    It's not that they wont travel it's that
    My nan who's walking me down the aisle wont even drive to brighton she hates it especially with her health.
    And my mum, uncle, and great nan/grandad dont drive so it's a tricky situation
    But I see what your saying
    Thank you xx
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    VIP April 2022 Wiltshire
    Charlotte ·
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    Ah ok I see your dillemma now. Can you look at getting them a big car service to being them, or friends that wouldn't mind bringing them? Maybe have a chat with them and see if they have any ideas as that will make them feel considered but still keep focus on the fact it is your day. Am sure there is a resolution so don't panic too much
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    Dedicated August 2024 East Sussex
    Hayley ·
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    Thank you I definitely I'll also talk to my fiance xx
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