Hi Everyone. Thought I had signed up to Hitched before but obviously not and got confused with another site! I got engaged 2 years ago and we were looking to get married in 2012 (it was quite far away when we decided and I didn't fancy 2013... I used to live in number 13 so not over supersticious but didn't fancy 2013.
I have Muscular Dystrophy and have trouble getting out of low cars and so wouldn't want to go between venues (if we did I'd jump in my mums Jeep hehe but can see me getting a dirty dress lol), just my luck that my friend owns a bentley too lol! So anyway I would like to get married in the same venue as the reception and if possible also be able to stay on site so I don't have to worry about getting home etc.
We don't have a huge budget and it looks at the moment that we have 100 guests, most of which will need to be at the actual ceremony (fiance's family.... aparently it will cause problems and fall outs if they aren't invited.... grrrrr I'm sure they would understand..... but hey ho)
My OH's mum suggested just having a buffet not a sit down meal but I really want a sit down meal as I trip easily lol and can see my food going on my dress, on the floor, or me just sitting there scared to move! lol but its so expensive! We were thinking of just having a sit down meal late in the day as the reception with no disco as we are not dancers and will just be sitting down, although it would be nice to have a first dance. Does anyone have any ideas?
We just want like a roast turkey sit down meal, nothing overly fancy.
The best wedding I ever went to was in a registry office, then went to canary wharf to a place called Jamies Bar, by the thames and it was amazing as they hired it out and we had the choice of thai curry, roast dinner or a pasta dish, then in the evening they had a buffet, but we were all say outside in the sun and so relaxed and amazing! Would love to do that myself but the bar has now changed hands and we live in Essex, and think there may be problems with people not wanting to go to London (if I remember rightly the car park fee was something like £15!)
Would love to do something simliar though, or if not a golf club/hotel.
Any ideas? I love Lords Country Club and Golf Course but there is no accomodation (even though we only live in Wickford ourselves) or Langdon Golf Course but kind of stuck looking at the same venues and fancy something different.
Not fancying Hylands House as I do lots of work stuff there (and now it just reminds me of The Only Way Is Essex!)