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Heather
Beginner May 2023 Lincolnshire

Walking down the aisle

Heather, 12 December, 2020 at 17:59 Posted on Planning 1 23
Hi all,


I’m looking for brides who didn’t have their dad walk them down the aisle, and I’m interested who you had/what you did instead? My dad isn’t in my life, my mum sadly can’t walk and honestly probably won’t be alive to see my wedding, and I don’t have any other male relatives (but I’m not that bothered about it being a man anyway). It’s something that’s been playing on my mind since I got engaged, so any ideas would be so helpful!! Thank you!

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Latest activity by HappyPinkHair15172, 16 January, 2021 at 14:57
  • ExpensivePinkFlowers63608
    Savvy April 2021 Somerset
    ExpensivePinkFlowers63608 ·
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    You and your partner could walk down the aisle together? It's what I initially wanted to do, but my dad was so excited when I got engaged that he's going to be walking with me (not giving me away, though, I don't belong to anyone!).

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    Beginner August 2021 Warwickshire
    NellyNiff ·
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    My brother is walking me down the aisle as my dad also isn't in my life, but I have been to weddings where the bride has walked down the aisle alone which was really emotional and empowering! How about having your maid of honour walk with you, or a close friend?

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  • PhotographybyBillHaddon
    Super January 3000 Leicestershire
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    I think this would be a nice touch. The bridesmaids go first and then you enter the room or start of the isle and you stop and your partner can turn for their "look" and then walk down the isle to collect you and you both walk down together.

    Or you walk halfway down and your partner walks to the middle to meet you.

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  • DDsgettingmarried!
    Curious September 2021 Kent
    DDsgettingmarried! ·
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    My dad isn’t in my life either. I did at first think about having my oldest son, who will be 5 by then, walk me down the aisle, but then thought that would be a bit much for him. So I’ll be walking on my own. I only have one bridesmaid too, so it really will be a short procession. x

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    Missouri
    Dany ·
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    Do you have a brother, a son, a male cousin who you are close with, lastly a male bestfriend? Lots of alternative choices for you to decide. Smiley smile

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  • Dancingdee
    Beginner September 2021 Dordogne
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    Lovely idea!!
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  • Dancingdee
    Beginner September 2021 Dordogne
    Dancingdee ·
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    My dad isn't well enough for my wedding in France so my mum will walk me. I'm having a registry ceremony to legalise and my dad will attend buti don't want to be walked down I don't think as it won't be my wedding but now you've made me think lol! I love the idea of the groom collecting you xx
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    Genius July 2020 Monmouthshire
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    My father died several years ago. We'd originally planned that my uncle would walk me down the aisle, but due to Covid, we had to drop that plan, so my OH and I walked down the aisle together. I'm so happy that we did that, and with hindsight, would have chosen that option even without Covid - it just felt so right!

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  • Eleanor
    Beginner August 2022 Berkshire
    Eleanor ·
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    Hi, I'm not that close with my dad or my brother but my sister and I are best friends so she is going to walk with me! If I didn't have her I would walk with my partner or give myself away! ?

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    Dedicated March 2024 Hertfordshire
    SunnyPurpleFlowers85794 ·
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    I'm walking down the aisle by myself. I don't feel like anyone should 'give me away' because I'm giving myself to him. I feel I've been pretty in charge of all the decisions my life and I don't have a dad, I'm not close with my mum and I don't feel like my brothers were that father figure and I'm excited to start my new family with me and my other half. Be that strong confident women if you want to Smiley laugh

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  • Heather
    Beginner May 2023 Lincolnshire
    Heather ·
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    I really love the idea of walking down the aisle with my maid of honour, thank you!! ?
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  • Heather
    Beginner May 2023 Lincolnshire
    Heather ·
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    I totally agree, women don’t belong to anyone!! As much as I love the idea of walking down alone and it’s such an empowering thing to do, I just think I would be too anxious (and too clumsy!) to personally do it! All the best with your wedding ?
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    Genius July 2020 Monmouthshire
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    Yes, I wasn't thinking along the lines of being 'given away' because I think that's rubbish, but more in terms of having some support on the walk!

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    Curious July 2021 Hertfordshire
    ExpensiveGreenCakes49831 ·
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    I’m having my mum walking me down the aisle! And my fiancé is actually having his mum walk him down before I arrive. She has three boys and he wants her to experience it.



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  • Claire
    Curious September 2022 Aberdeen & Deeside
    Claire ·
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    I plan on walking down alone. I don’t have a close relationship with my dad. I’m giving myself to my FH, no one is giving me away Smiley smile
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    Beginner May 2021 Overbetuwe
    Joanne ·
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    Just walk down the aisle on your own. Smiley winking Just focus on on your spouse-to-be instead of who might be on your arm. You give yourself to your partner. Nowone else is doing it for you.

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    Beginner July 2022 Dorset
    Jade ·
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    My dad isn't in my life so my grandfather is walking me down. My mum has never been married so this is first time walking someone down the aisle and he got emotional when I asked
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  • Nikki
    Beginner August 2022 Dumfries Galloway & Ayrshire
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    I am having my sons walk me down the aisle one on each arm as my dad passed away 2 year ago
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  • Katrina
    Beginner August 2021 Oxfordshire
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    Thats a beautiful idea xxxx My dad and grandad passed away, but my 15yr old son is walking me down the aisle

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    It's indeed a great idea and one that some dreams to do, I just wonder how I have not seen this kind of setup often.

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  • Katrina
    Beginner August 2021 Oxfordshire
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    We are making our wedding about us, so not really following many traditions, my son is 15 and taller than me so wont look strange {im 5ft 2} but it's going to be something special that both of us will share. He's even going to get ready with my other half then come back once I'm ready as he wants a surprise like my dad would have had xxx

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  • Missmiller92
    Beginner July 2023 Lincolnshire
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    What about your sisters? Maid of honour? My mum is walking me but I would of loved to of has my sister.
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  • HappyPinkHair15172
    Dedicated September 2022 Merseyside
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    I'm marrying for the second time, first time for my finance.

    My two adult daughters are my BM's and the three of us will be walking down the aisle together.

    We were a very close trio as their dad (my first husband) bailed when they were really little. We're still really close even though they are in their late 20s now, and they love my fiance!

    I just hope we can all fit side by side!!!!!!!!!!!

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