Want a small wedding but can’t find the ‘right’ venue or idea!

Hi all!


Soo I’ve been down the google wedding hole to the point of insanity at least twenty times 😆
Ideally we’re looking to have a small wedding but just can’t decide on what to do -
- abroad (either gets expensive/hard to know what you’re getting/we want a legally binding one/who to invite etc)- register office and then meal (would it be a bit ‘sad’ or would we feel a bit random wandering round in full wedding attire!- rent a house for a big family get together then register office somewhere else in the UK (starts to get expensive if it’s for a few nights in a massive house/you add in catering etc/also do we want to be stuck with all the family for four nights plus 👀)- register office and then garden party/bbq (too casual?! Logistics with loos/electric/if it rains!) - abroad packages just seem a bit risky and lots of mixed reviews!
I feel like every option I think of I then find the negative! Ultimately we just want to get married but I’m not a big fan of being the centre of attention nor the traditional weddings with set routine etc and would quite like something a bit different, but then talk myself out of things 🤦🏻‍♀️
I also would prefer to almost just book a package kind of thing that has everything, I have no interest in all the planning bits (feels like an awful thing to say but I’m not really a girly girl or ever been that marriage orientated)
HELP 😅 any ideas on quirky non traditional weddings that don’t require a massive amount of planning or packages that aren’t too ‘traditional’?!