Hello all!
I'm new here and just decided to join you guys ?
I got engaged last September ❤️ but we've started researching and budgeting for our wedding early this year for 2014, possibly May (hoping it will be warmer than this on going winter weather). However like most people who just got engaged, we don't know where to start even with all the extensive research we've done.
Ideally we want to get married abroad, somewhere warmer/drier than the UK. We also want to escape from the politics within our family & friends which we have to invite (I'm Chinese & my fiance is Irish so you can imagine the huge guest list)!
We have looked at several countries/islands within Europe and even stretched all the way to the Caribbean & the islands (Seychelles / Mauritius) on the Indian Ocean! Unlike most people, we don't want to go out to the extreme where our family have to fork out all their savings just to attend our wedding, especially with this economic climate! We want everyone to have a mini break yet won't break their bank and go home with a beautiful memory of our wedding.
I also know that because we are not from the same country, there are various paperwork required in order to get married. We have already ruled out France as they require residency of 60 days. Most people would suggest we should just have the celebration abroad and leave all the paperwork to be signed in the UK. However my fiance's family priest will be travelling with us and will be conducting our wedding.
We are hoping to select our final wedding destination and pay a visit before considering it. We just want to make sure that we are happy with the location as pictures on websites doesn't give you the real feel!
So here are the questions:
From experience, where would you recommend to get married with around 30 guests?
Should I contact several wedding planners of the chosen country before we head out there to pay a visit?
Is it a real headache getting married abroad (paperwork, trustworthy of the wedding planner etc)?
Some people say it's cheaper to get abroad whilst other said it doesn't make a difference... so who's correct?
Sorry for the long post! Hope you guys can give me a helping hand!
Juliana