Hi All, not sure if this is the right section but here goes!
I have a bit of a conscience struggle regarding inviting certain work colleagues to my wedding in April next year. I work in a small company (50 people in total) more specifically in the accounts dept. I also work closely with the sales dept next door, who are mainly girls the same age as me. A few months ago one particular colleague in Sales and I were very close, but she started being strange with me for no reason, was not exactly happy when I announced my engagement and has now started excluding me from other colleagues' social events outside of work. (i.e. not inviting me on purpose then bragging what a great time she had afterwards) Therefore, I am not going to be inviting her to our wedding. The question is, it is proper etiquette therefore, If I exclude her, I am to exclude the other girls? I don't know for sure, but I think they talk about me behind my back and they are very close to the girl who's trying making my life a misery at the moment. I know for a fact any social event is kept quiet so therefore I think they are ALL in on not inviting me for some reason. I am not exceptionally close to the other Sales girls, but I know they will be REALLY offended if I excluded them as they were talking about arranging a hen party for me with "just work colleagues" (i said i didnt want this and they said they'd do it anyway!!) so i think they are expecting to be invited!
Also, If i do exclude them all and just say I am inviting accounts, this is not the case as I will be inviting 3 people from other depts in the company who I get on really well with.
How do I handle this situation? I don't want to cause offense to anyone - there are a few people in Sales who do not deserve to be excluded I'm sure but this is the only way I can think of that shows I'm not leaving anyone out (the girl who's making me miserable is exceptionally good at playing the "victim" and if I exclude only her, I will be sent to Coventry by everyone else!) Argghh
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