Please share your wedding favours with me - although I dont get married until 2013, this is one thing I am looking forward to and want to make sure I have something lovely.
I wasn't going to do favours as I think they are a waste of money however we've decided to give charity badges so I think for all the children I will give a great ormand street badge and then for adults something different but haven't decided what yet, may even do one for men and one for women. Also might put a jar of mints on the table!
We had so much sweet stuff in the wedding breakfast that we thought more would just not be noticed, plus we wanted to do something more significant to "us" so we got Lymphoma and Leukaemia Research (H had Hodgkin's lymphoma in 2010) pin badges and cards, which also doubled as our place cards. A handful of them got left behind, but you can see loads of them on our guests in the evening pics which is lovely!
I'm doing Home made jam for the ladies and chutney for the men. I'm collecting all different sizes and shapes of jars and am going to cover the lids with pretty material probably all mismatching but floral pink to fit in with my colour scheme and am gonig to put a luggage label on each with the guests name so they double as place settings :-)
JUst need to find the material and some pretty ribbon!
I thought it would be something I'd find inspiration about easily, but I've really come stuck on this and haven't bought anything/made any decisions. I have a weekend pencilled in with one of my bridesmaids to spend time putting them together but at this rate we'll have nothing to do!
Being as we are welsh and us having a loose welsh theme, (daffodils as our main flowers, few other welshy things), we are making chocolate welsh lovespoons for the ladies and chocolate welsh dragons for the men, with sweets in a clear plastic dragons for the children.
Going to put the chocs in clear cello bags and tie with ribbon and attach a name tag in our colour theme. ?
we are having black horse and carraige favour boxes filled with personalised M&M sweets. Our theme is Ivory and Black and we got engaged in Central Park NY so that is how it all ties in.
We're doing these lovely illustrated magnets of local scenes (Bristol and Bath). 99% of our guests are from out of town - many from abroad - so we thought it was a nice wedding favour and souvenir of their visit.
My OH also wants to do personalised biscuits. We're hoping to have shamrock shaped biscuits iced in red, white, and blue (he's Irish and I'm American).
We're doing personalised badges as place name, the idea being to help break the ice - so evening guests are also getting one. Then as actual favours a lego man with the idea it will represent that person, OH is a big lego fan, and some personalised M&Ms to fit our colour scheme. So a few really!
Mind oyu, we're not doing a lot of things which are considered to be 'traditional' as they just don't do it for us. Like flowers, we're having none. And cars - we'll just get taxis (or family will drive and we'll get taxis home and collect cars in the morning!). I have to say that I *love* looking at pictures of weddings with all the traditional trappings, but it's just not really us and I think our wedding will be more personal for looking different in that sense ? (we're hoping that's the case, rather than people thinking it's a bit odd and nothing like a wedding!!
We are donating to charity too. My nan passed away in December after having a stroke so we are donating to the Stroke Association. They do not have badges so we are making little cards to sit on the table to tell people we have donated as their favour.
We are having jars of honey with place names attached. It was going to be homemade jam/chutney but OH found a special deal on these through his work so we went for these instead!
We are doing little boxes (sourced from Ebay 10 for 99p) with sweets in.
We have been to wedding that have done: donations to oxfam (each guest had a card that bought a bucket, a spade etc....), poppy seeds, home emade shortbread with their initials in icing and small jars of home made jam & marmalde.
We're not having any cos we didn't want anything food-y as we are having a 5 course dinner, and we didn't want anything that looked cheap, so it would have meant us spending about £5 pp, so we've decided to knock it on the head.
The website is https://www.mrsbridges.co.uk/shop/browse.php?catid=19 - I emailed them direct and they made up smaller pots for me which I am just tying a little bit of organza ribbon around with a small tag saying thank you - hope this helps! xx
For our day guests, they got a little organza bags with a couple of sweets and a packet of personalised love hearts that said 'Thank You from Mr & Mrs RKB'
In the evening we hadreusable red mitten shaped handwarmers for all the guests to use while outside watching the fireworks.
Lisa - how are you making the chocolates? Do you have a mould?
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Hi yes I've got a mould, had them off ebay, the lovespoons are a dbl mould while the dragon is on it's own.
I know it will be a bit time consuming but as it's chocolate we are going to start making them about a week b4 a few at a time and jst bag them and store them in the fridge, then cpl days b4 add the ribbon and tags, after obviously sampling some to make sure they're ok!! ?