Wedding gifts

Hi - Have you thought about using Prezola? They have a 'honeymoon' fund option on there as well as your more traditional gifts. People can then give cash through them and it will be transferred to you. It also means you can select things to go on your honeymoon gift list so people can feel like they are giving you a specialised thing for your honeymoon e.g. an activity, room upgrade, special meal

They do obviously take some money for processing fees, but it might be something that works for you.

A polite way to handle this is to use a honeymoon fund or wedding gift registry where guests can contribute online. You could include a short note such as:

“Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for. If you would like to contribute to our honeymoon, we’ve set up a honeymoon fund where you can make a contribution safely and conveniently. Please don’t feel any obligation—your love and support mean the most to us.”

This feels more personal and thoughtful than simply sharing bank details, while still making it easy for guests who would like to contribute.