Wedding guilt

Aww i'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling guilty and stressed which you shouldn't feel guilty at all - this is a valid time in your life to have all these thoughts and feelings! Have you got any of your close friends you feel like you can confide in? Especially any that may have been newly-married, so they understand how they would feel had their wedding been affected by all of this!

In terms of moving your wedding etc etc., I think the only thing I could say is whatever makes you feel better is the best answer. Sadly no-one has a crystal ball to know what next year will look like, so there really isn't any 'right' choice. So I would pick your gut feeling!

I'm not until next October so hopefully have a bit more time for things to settle down.. if i were April though, I would probably be holding my nerve until after Christmas and see how that has all effected things, potentially end of Jan?

I'm in the same boat as you pretty much! Wedding is early May 2021, and also struggling to be excited for it, as I have a feeling we may have to postpone. I don't think anyone not in our position really gets how tough it is. I know so many people being affected by the situation in worse ways (redundancies etc) so don't want to complain, but at the same time feel frustrated. Our plan is to wait until circa March 2021 to come to a decision on moving the date...I'm hoping after winter things will look more positive!!

I'm end of March and we've just had everything on hold - then earlier this week I realised it's November next week and started to panic! We've told friends and family the date - I think we will send invites out soon with a card with a note saying something along the lines of "based on current situation we may have to reduce numbers to 30" or .... advise not booking accommodation until closer to the time. It's very difficult to know what to do, but rest assured there are a lot of us in the same boat!