Wedding in 3 months....and no dress!

Sorry to say, I can't see your pictures [:'(]

Oh no, I can't see them either. Try re-adding them?

Hmmm, can't seem to get the pics to upload from my Flickr account...

I really like the first dress! I am a big fan of lace sleeves and it looks really flattering! I am also a massive fan of sparkle so i would probably add some bling to the belt. When is your other dress due to arrive?

Thank you I've not actually ordered the City Slicker dress - was kind of going to gauge opinion on here first!

I LOVE the first dress. Your arms are fine but I just think it looks really beautiful with this detailing on the sleves. It's a really really pretty style.

I LOVE the Monsoon dress, you look stunning!!!

Love, love, love the first dress

If you order the second dress are you able to return it? i could not order my dress until i had tried on every dress i liked, even though i knew it was the one!

The first dress is absolutly stunning! Really shows off your great figure too! xx

Tams82 - I would be able to return it but it would cost around £30ish (£15 P&P and then I have to send it back by Special Delivery too) I guess it's worth it to satisfy my curiosity...

I think it's more of the kind of dress everybody would expect to see me in. The Monsoon dress is really pretty but I don't think anyone would be expecting me to wear something like that which I think is adding a little to my nervousness about it. My future MIL has commented on some other friends wedding dresses saying they're the most stunning dress she's ever seen and they're all big, ruffled and satin! I know at the end of the day it's about what I like, but when all eyes are on me I don't want people to be thinking 'What was she thinking?!'

For me that would make me want it even more, i want a dress where everyone goes 'wow' and not 'ooo that dress looks like so and so's dress!'

You look lovely in that dress and you shouldn't worry about people comparing your dress to other people's dresses!

LOVE the monsoon and cityslicker dresses, not a fan of the third one sorry :s Hope that's decisive though!

The monsoon dress is beautiful, but so is the Kitty and Dulcie dress. if you are curious about the K&D one, I say order it and try it on just to make sure - even if you end up returning it and it costs you £30, I think that's worth it to satisfy your curiosity.

Oh yeah I forgot to say ignore your FMIL and make your own decisions. My FMIL is putting pressure on me to change the colour of the bridesmaids dresses but I'm not having any of it because it's not her decision!

Out of all of them I like the Kitty and Dulcie Dress best - Its gorgeous! And if you are conscious of your arms (which look FINE to me) I think a lace bolero will look lovely.

Thanks for your comments - it makes me feel a lot better.

I emailed Kitty and Dulcie about sizing and I'm going to order the City Slicker dress now. Their email response was almost instant - great customer service! I need to stop looking online...! I've just seen this dress at John Lewis. What do you think? Might order it just to see...

Love the monsoon and k and t dresses! Ignore your mother in law. It's your day and you need to feel amazing.

I also love the monsoon one

The Monsoon dress is beautiful and looks amazing on you! The K&D one is lovely too.

Don't take any notice of what your MIL says or of what you think people will be expecting you to wear - choose the one you love and feel comfortable in. Kind of want to get married again so I can buy the Monsoon dress :-)

Hi,

They are all very pretty. I prefer the Monsoon and the second one. The style really suits you. you could have a veil or a birdcage veil with delicate flower detail. I have a few pieces which you might like on my site. see what you think

www.weddingfascinator.co.uk

Lynne

First is my favourite from your choices. Looks very classy

Love love love the Monsoon dress - it looks really old school hollywood & really suits you. In fact you're giving me dress wobbles now that I've seen this!!!

I absolutely LOVE the Monsoon dress! It really flatters you and look perfect to me. I wouldnt worry about getting what everyone else expects you to wear. Stick with the Monsoon dress I say! ? xx

That first Monsoon dress is gorgeous - by far my favourite of all the ones you've flashed. It looks fab on you too.