Wedding invitations

Hi, we've done paper invitations.

Everyone invited to the ceremony got a save the date postcard, even though they already knew the date, and the evening guests got a WhatsApp. Six months later we sent the ceremony invitations (and some we have also WhatsApp'd a copy to as they said they didn't receive the one in the post). We know most of the ceremony guests will attend but some won't. Once we get the RSVP's back, we'll see who can't make it and move some of the evening guests up the list (only because we have limited seats we couldn't fit everyone in), then we'll send evening invitations out. I think a text, or online can get lost and it doesn't feel special, and I also like the idea of having the invitations as a keepsake. Also, people don't seem to communicate anymore so a paper invitation is a nice touch. Just my opinion though.

But, they can be pricey so it depends what your budget allows. And postage stamps are expensive too.

I love receiving paper invitations! They are most definitely still a thing! I love handing ours out and receiving the RSVP in the post! However, for our night guests we are sending a digital copy for work. These are our only night guests.

I've done both - I sent online invites the same week I sent out paper cards. I designed the postcard style invites myself using canva then got them printed.

We did paper invites - it feels more of an occasion than just sending an email, and I know many of our guests keep things like that for scrapbooks etc.

We did provide email and phone details for RSVP as well as an address though, to make it easier for people to respond. Traditionally, you are meant to respond in the same format as that in which the invitation was issued, but I don't think anyone really worries about that any more. We did have one beautifully hand-written acceptance card from a guest in her late 80s who was adamant that was the only 'proper' way to reply, but most of our guests just emailed back.

I done it the old fashioned way . I like a physical invitation . We have a lot of weddings this year , from young soon to be brides and grooms and all have sent a physical official invitation . I say you do you , I can see why some may prefer the on line route , but it wouldn’t be my cup of tea , but I am a dinosaur , and totally not with it with these kind of things 😂

Yes they are definitely a thing still. We will be doing a mixture of both in some fashion but I know a lot of people love to receive an actual invite

We did paper invitations and save the dates in the post, as I liked the tradition and also the idea of it sitting on people's fridges and noticeboards

However, the invitation had minimal details on it. Only the date, location and time. We had a link and QR code to our wedding website where we had full details, FAQs and a form for them to RSVP. It worked really well and only had to chase a small handful of people at the deadline.

I am going to do proper invitations. I will have 30 invitations for the ceremony and will request RSVP from them and I will send out different wording on the evening invitations and wont expect an RSVP, if they come they come, if not then oh well!

The one thing I do questions is, do you put the meal options for people to choose on the invitation themselves or on the RSVP card?!

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Hey Laurie, I've been thinking the same, but not sure I I could do some of the designs that are on the larger websites. How did they turn out? I'm looking around at the moment to find some inspiration, at the right price!!

OK, so I’ve been looking at so many wedding invitations lately my head is spinning — I didn't realise how much choice there was!

Some of the places I’ve found are:

Papier Stationery Design - love their minimalist styles

HeartEDesigns Wedding Invitations - a smaller site I came across — some lovely designs

Vistaprint Stationery - good prices! - but not too keen on the designs

Adobe Invitation Maker - Not sure I'm that brave to do myself

Still undecided though — there are too many nice options! Anyone else struggling to choose, or have any tips for me please?

At our wedding we had several parts to the celebration, so we decided to use different types of invitations. Alongside the main traditional ceremony, we also planned a separate party that took place at a casino venue. Because of this, it made sense to approach the invitations in different formats.

The main wedding invitations were physical paper invites. We created them completely on our own, from the initial idea to the final print. The design was made from scratch. We wanted something elegant and understated, without too many decorative elements. We chose a light background, clean typography and a clear layout. Once the final design was ready, we had the invitations printed on thick, high quality paper. They felt classic and special, and at the same time the overall style subtly matched the festive mood of the later party, without being too literal.

For the casino party, we created separate online invitations, which were also designed by ourselves. For the online party invitation, we were looking for an idea that combined a casino atmosphere with a modern, slightly playful feel. While searching for references, we came across a page describing the 22bet bonus , then explored their website further and liked their overall colour palette. They use fairly restrained colours compared to many others. We did not copy anything directly, but we took inspiration from some of their design choices and adapted them to fit the concept of our wedding party.

The paper invitations were sent by post and in some cases handed out personally. The online invitations were shared digitally via messaging apps and email. This worked very well, especially for the party, as it was a more informal format and allowed us to share details easily.

Looking back now, I would still choose a mixed approach. For the main wedding celebration, paper invitations feel like the best option as they create a sense of occasion and become a keepsake. For additional events or after-parties, online invitations are ideal, especially when they are thoughtfully designed and connected to the venue and atmosphere.