We have planned our dream intimate wedding abroad, on a beach with just our children and our parents. We now have the issue of looking for a venue back in the UK to celebrate with everyone when we return and it's just feeling like a huge expense that just isn't a priority for us as we would have already had our special day. I want to share our happy news with our nearest and dearest but am really struggling to find a venue that can give us what we want, which really is just a party with a BBQ and a bar, no faff! As soon as you say it's a wedding the price goes up so much! Because of the huge expense i'm wondering whether to not have a reception back here at all (which will disappoint a lot of family), have it really delayed from the wedding so we can save up for it again, or just do something real budget (which isn't proving very easy!)... any ideas ?