Hi all, hope everyone is excited about getting married!!!
I would really love some advice regarding a family situation. My fiance and i are due to be getting married 25th June 2021. We were not ever planning on having a big wedding but we really wanted to celebrate with our families. Both sides of our family were there when we got engaged and family is usualy really important to us.
Unfortunately over the last year we have fallen out with my partners mum and dad. It was an big argument and we are currently not on speaking terms. I will admit I am not completely innocent in the affair but have apologised profusely for my actions. The result of this is they blame me for the whole affair. I really do not want to come between my partner and his parents and have tried to encourage him may times to speak to them to have some kind of relationship and that i do not need to be there. He currently wants nothing to do with them as he thinks they are at fault and should be apologising to us.
My parents want to celebrate us getting married but i feel awful knowing my family will be there and his won't. Even though this is his choice. Whenever i have spoken about it to him, he shuts me down and says if we invite them they will cause a scene (as they have done in the past) and ruin our day. Any advice about what i can or should do would be greatly received!
Thanks