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Beginner June 2025 East Central London

Wedding planning is a disaster

Katie, 17 June, 2025 at 09:23 Posted on Planning 0 7
He wants very traditional. I am totally the opposite. Zero overlap.
It’s 16 months from now and I am either living in panic or dread. How do we reconcile totally different ideas.

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Latest activity by Kelvin, 7 July, 2025 at 15:22
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    Genius July 2020 Monmouthshire
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    Oh dear, wedding planning is hard enough when you both agree, so you have my sympathy. However, learning how to deal with confict is one of the most important skills to develop if you want a lasting, healthy marriage, so I guess in one way it's good that you are getting lots of practice resolving differences pre-marriage!!!

    As for practical advice, it's a bit difficult to be specific without knowing what your 'very traditional' and 'totally opposite' wedding ideas are, but as a general guide, I would suggest you each spend time thinking about your 'ideal' wedding and then list, in order, which aspects really matter most to you. Then sit down together and look at how you can combine both ideas. Of course, this will be easier if you don't both pick the same things as being 'most important', but if you do, then maybe alternate, so you each get some 'important' things that are the way you want.

    Yes, this is going to mean that your wedding is probably going to end up being a total mix of traditional and non-traditional, but that is totally fine. I see a lot of people on here worrying about how to pick the right 'wedding theme' or how to make their wedding 'unique' and I always say, don't bother about the theme or making it unique, because if you pick what matters to you without 'trying' to be themed or different, the wedding is automatically going to have its own unique theme. And I reckon that a wedding that ends up as a blend of two totally different styles because the bride and groom worked together to accommodate each other's preferences is going to end up very unique and very special. Good luck with it, and let us know how you get on!

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    When my wife and I were planning our wedding, I thought that the biggest stress would be on the hall and the host. But it turned out that the main thing was what to treat the guests to. I was especially worried about alcohol: I didn’t want the usual “hot stuff” that would make you feel ashamed and sick the next morning. One friend advised me to try LEX vodka https://www.lex.vodka/ , saying that it was solid, soft, and didn’t taste like regular strong stuff. And you know, I never regretted it. It looked decent on the table, was easy to drink, and no one complained in the morning.

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    Savvy July 2010 New York
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    Savvy July 2010 New York
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  • Josue
    Beginner August 2024 Maine
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    Totally understand the chaos—wedding planning really brings out unexpected stress! If you’re ever looking to blow off some steam in between decisions, checking out something fun like LoL Champion Randomizer might be a lighthearted break. Trust me, diving into unpredictable lineups can feel way less stressful than seating charts!

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  • Kelvin
    Beginner July 2025 Arkansas
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    Totally feel you — wedding planning can spiral fast and feel overwhelming. Sometimes it helps to take a short break and clear your mind. I stumbled upon this fun little paper tricky match challenge recently, and it was oddly relaxing. A quick mental reset can really make a difference before diving back into the chaos!

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