Hi all
We are getting married in July and struggling with how to approach the gift registry, which a number of our guests have been asking about (fwiw our guests are from all over, not just the UK, and I know many of them expect to give us a gift). We have lived together for a few years now, our place is quite small and the reality is that we just don't need (or have space for!) extra homeware. So I'm now thinking about maybe asking for contributions to our honeymoon. All the couples whose weddings I've been to in the past couple years have been in the same boat and they all asked for cash (either for a honeymoon or a house deposit). So it feels that this is definitely becoming more of the norm.
I don't feel particularly comfortable asking guests to give us envelopes of or bank transfer us cash (as one of the previous weddings I went to did). I've seen some wedding websites like Prezola allow you to set up a list and ask for e.g. £25 contribution to a honeymoon fund, which I thought seemed more appropriate. Has anyone used this or other websites that they thought worked well? I've seen some really negative reviews about Prezola although that seems to be more around delivery of gifts instead of the honeymoon funds.
I know some people think a honeymoon fund is tacky - but it'll be very much phrased as 'your presence is more than present enough but if you are inclined to give us a wedding gift, a contribution to make our honeymoon memorable would be very much appreciated etc etc'. I appreciate the alternative would be to not ask for anything - but knowing my guests, that means we'll end up with a lot of physical gifts we don't want or requests to send us cash directly or something..
Any experiences with honeymoon funds/websites would be very welcome!!