Wedding rings

Ours will both be matching in the sense they will be a silver band, but they won’t be identical as his will be a mens one and mine will be a daintier ‘womens’ one

We plan to have totally different ones just due to individual preferences. He wants yellow gold simple band, im after a silver coloured more elaborate one!

We will have completely different rings. I wanted mine to be 18k white gold to match my engagement ring and it needed to be shaped to fit round the stones of my ring. My OH gets skin irritation with gold so he went for titanium and it's much more matte in texture. He isn't a jewelry fan so it was important he found something that he could live with wearing every day.

Ours will both be gold, which matches my e-ring, but mine is a vintage wishbone shaped one and his will be a traditional simple mens wedding band. FH was really keen to be gold to match me, but it definitely wouldn't have worked with my e-ring or my tiny fingers vs his chunky ones to have exactly the same ring.

Thanks ladies, it’s been useful to see what people have chosen to do. I always wanted us to match. My parents have matching rings and I’ve always thought it was cute but when I’ve been looking at rings, I can’t seem to find one I like that has a matching “male” ring.


I asked my Fiancé what he wanted to do and like most men he said “whatever you think is best” haha! 😂

We both have gold wedding bands but mine is flat and his is D shaped. To be honest we just wanted what was cheapest from the pawnbrokers (within reason) as my engagement ring is quite eloibrate and he wanted something plain as he wasn't fussed.

My parents are matching, I think that's a more traditional thing (even then though the ladies is thinner)

I had matching ones the first time around.

This time I am having one that matches my engagement ring (platinum with diamonds) and then my wife to be is having a plain platinum band

We both have the same diamond rings, but little bit designs are different. it's also matching with our dress. it is well-designed and at the best price.

Our rings will be totally different!

Our rings are 'the same' in that they are both plain gold bands, but to be honest, his is so much bigger and thicker than mine that they almost look like different rings anyway. So if you can't find matching rings you like I wouldn't worry, because unless you have fairly similar sized hands, one ring is going to end up much chunkier than the other anyway. My ring actually fits inside my OHs with room to spare, so there was no way we were going to be able to get anything that looked totally similar!!!

Thanks everyone. We’ve had some more discussions and we’ve agreed that due to the thickness of his and mine, they won’t be the same but we will match in metal and I really love the idea of adding an engraving to the inside which will give them a special and personal match.


Thanks so much everyone xx