What are you asking your bridesmaids and moh to do?

Not even thought about the order down the aisle! Now you are making me think what I should be doing! We are getting married this July so I ought to get my head round it.

I have been to lots of weddings but so long ago now I have forgotten all this stuff!

I think in terms of what you want your party to do then ask them what they feel comfortable with. I only have one adult MOH (my sister) and the rest of the BMs are under age 14 so my sister will be doing most tasks. I personally haven't involved her with the colour scheme or flowers and so far she has been at the dress fitting and I send pics of BM dresses to her and my mum. She has also booked the hen do. For all other suppliers inc cars, flowers, photographer and DJ, my fiancé and I chose these together.

I only have a MOH and I think she was a bit disappointed that I just went ahead and booked everything without really thinking of including her (so much so we're doing a wedding fair next month just for the lols)! All I've asked is for her to pick (and pay for) her own outfit, and she's also organising the hen do. I will probably ask her to come with me to the final fitting so she can have a practice run with helping me with my dress.

This is really interesting to hear - I've been so worried about not making them feel obligated to come to stuff and get involved that I probably have erred on not including them enough!

My mum and I are going to a wedding fair for similar reasons - I feel like I don't really need the inspo but she thinks it'll just be a fun day out haha