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Lara, 28 February, 2024 at 21:38 Posted on Etiquette and Advice 0 2

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So one of my close friends is getting married and has invited all of our friends and their partners but after inviting my partner previously, removed their invitation. Basically at the beginning of our relationship I was cheated on. But I forgave him and we worked through it. Over a year later stronger than ever. My friend admitted that it was their fiance that didn't want my partner there. I have agreed to go to the ceremony but I'll leave after because it doesn't feel right being there with my friends and their partners whilst mine is at home. Am I wrong for this?

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Latest activity by Ivana, 4 March, 2024 at 18:02

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RomanticGreenStationery27135 · 29 February, 2024 at 17:24
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It's entirely up to you. You don't have to attend at all if you don't want to.
Did your friend's fiance say why he didn't want your partner at the wedding? It seems odd that if you have forgiven your partner and your friend is willing to invite him, that her fiance should want the invite cancelled. It might be worth asking about this, since it could create a strain on your friendship long-term if her partner is unwilling to be civil to your partner.
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Ivana · 4 March, 2024 at 18:02
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Why are they getting involved in your relationship? If you have forgiven your partner and you have moved on, I'm pretty sure you do not want to be reminded of it all the time, why are they not willing to accept that and move on with their life? Very odd, if it means so much to you that your partner is there and they refuse to invite him, politely decline the invite and don't go. Or have a conversation, find out exactly why he's no longer invited and try to resolve that. But if you can't be prepared to choose if you are going on your own or declining the invite.
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