What evening food to have

I love the Pizza idea! in terms of numbers for the eve it depends on what time gap you have from the main meal to eve food. Normally they say cater for 80% of your eve guests but I think that is if you are having extra people. if your meal and eve food is less than 4 hours apart I would cater for 70%, we did 80% and had loads left, our meal finished at 6 and eve food came out at 9. As your main meal is filling then I think people wont want a lot in the evening just some picky bits. I think your ideas sound good or if you want to avoid too much bread/cheese could you maybe do a hot buffet of things like chicken satays, goujons, mini kebabs, koftas and a crudites and dip selection with some crisps? This is more meat than bread and cheese. Personally, I think you could still do the cheese board as will be different flavored cheese than on pizza, maybe serve with crackers not bread and chutneys and then have crudites, dips and crisps, all good for hungry drunk people and easy to prepare!

Could you also tell me the conception of the wedding? maybe you can add some seafood.

Wish you wonderful marriage!