My SiL-to -be is insisting that the father of the groom should have the same suit as the groom, best men (2), usher and my father, but I think it will look silly having so many people dressed exactly the same. They are wearing black morning suits with burnt orange ties (autumn colour scheme), groom wearing yellow tie but otherwise the same. What is the traditional / norm with father of the groom's outfit??
Update:
Thanks everyone. We've agreed same suits and having the father's wearing a different tie / waiscoat to the bestmen etc so it's not too much orange overload! It's definitely not about one father being more important than the other at all, we actually weren't planning on either of them wearing the same as the bridal party but we got a "hire four suits get one free deal" so decided to give that one to my dad as he'll be walking me down the aisle (obviously), and thought it would look good with him matching. His dad is doing a reading at the ceremony, as we want both sides to play a role in the big day.