Where does the brother of the bride go when shes getting ready?

Is he part of the grooms party? Like an usher or anything? If he is then I say it would make sense for him to be with the groom.
If not then I’m guessing he’s escorting your mum into the ceremony for example so there’s the potential to stay at the house with you guys. Though with a lot of girls it could be overwhelming for him.
Could he spend the morning with the groom then come back once your all ready to travel with you and your mum?

View quoted message The only thing hes doing is signing the document i thought as my dad has passed away he would give me away but he refused said it was too much which i totally understand xx my other half wants him with him so he can bond with the boys as he is rather quiet my little boy will be there too so i thought it would be good for him to have some quality time with them xxx

View quoted message Where does he want to go? I totally understand him not wanting to walk you down bless him. ❤️
I think if it was me, and he’s able to drive, I’d have him with the groom whilst you get ready then come back to the house to see you in your dress when your all ready and then travel with your mum. Then he can bond and help entertain your son. I’d double check with him and see how he feels though. I wouldn’t want him feeling uncomfortable on the day or nervous. It’s already going to be a big day seeing his big sister get married. Xx The males in my bridal party aren’t coming to my room until I’m dressed and made up. I can then get photos of them seeing me for the first time etc.

He doesnt my mum says hes got to stay there its caused more arguments, he doesnt drive he packed it in and im getting ready at my mums house and my oh is getting ready at our house that we own like so its frustrating i keep telling my mum theres going to be a fair few of us hair makeup bridesmaids photographers and she says that we will talk nearer the time xx so frustrating xxx

View quoted message Oh it’s a hard one. I think mums become crazy as the wedding gets closer. My mum has turned into bridezilla and it’s not even her wedding lol.


I’d say the week before your wedding ask your brother what he wants and then go with that. If he wants to be with your other half then your mum can’t moan as it’s his choice. It’s stressful as you want everything sorted and planned way before. Also go with what you want too as it’s your wedding! Xx