So it's still over a year until our wedding but I know that my BMs have already been thinking about what to organise for my hen do. If I was organising my own hen do it would probably be quite tame; a night out with dancing and maybe a burlesque class or something and that's about as risque as it would get.
However; I went to a party with one of my BMs yesterday and she was asking what I would be OK with, I said that I don't want any male strippers and not keen on having willies everywhere. She seemed OK with this and asked if naked butlers would be OK; I said yeah but that would be about my limit. This seemed OK again to start with but then she asked if I wouldn't want some sort of dance and wouldn't I like it etc; I said no but she just kept going on about it and also mentioned how she thought it was really funny when someone she knew was on her hen and was dressed up by her BMs as a giant willy and how she's going to do this for me.
Now admittedly we'd both had far too much to drink and she was possibly just winding me up but it made me feel so upset that when me and H2B (who was there and egging her on) got home I just cried! All of that sounds like my worst nightmare and I know I'm going to have to talk to her about it but her and one of my other BMs find all that sort of stuff really funny and are a lot more party-ish than I am and I'm already getting myself into a tizz thinking they'll just go ahead and do it anyway.
Don't expect any answers really, just wanted a bit of a rant!
