I'm starting to think about timings for the day and we are meeting with pastor soon so I've been thinking about the actual ceremony itself. I don't want the standard wedding hymns - "All Things Bright And Beautiful", "Love Divine, All Loves Excelling" etc. There's nothing wrong with those particular hymns but there's a wealth of worship music out there and I want something I really like as opposed to something everyone knows.
Our church service starts with half an hour of worship and I'd like to do something like that during the ceremony itself. Has anyone done something similar or been to a wedding where there is worship time?
As far as the "how to" I think the worship band will be able to play. I was thinking maybe just get them to play and rather than have everyone stand I can just do the words on the Order Of Service and people can sing along if they like. Is that too weird? My family and the church people coming would definitely sing so it's not like there wouldn't be anyone singing.
Also OH's family are not religious at all. Do you think this might make them feel a bit uncomfortable?