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DreamsComeTrue2015
Beginner July 2017

Worship Time During Ceremony - Good Idea?

DreamsComeTrue2015, 31 May, 2016 at 16:36 Posted on Planning 0 2

I'm starting to think about timings for the day and we are meeting with pastor soon so I've been thinking about the actual ceremony itself. I don't want the standard wedding hymns - "All Things Bright And Beautiful", "Love Divine, All Loves Excelling" etc. There's nothing wrong with those particular hymns but there's a wealth of worship music out there and I want something I really like as opposed to something everyone knows.

Our church service starts with half an hour of worship and I'd like to do something like that during the ceremony itself. Has anyone done something similar or been to a wedding where there is worship time?

As far as the "how to" I think the worship band will be able to play. I was thinking maybe just get them to play and rather than have everyone stand I can just do the words on the Order Of Service and people can sing along if they like. Is that too weird? My family and the church people coming would definitely sing so it's not like there wouldn't be anyone singing.

Also OH's family are not religious at all. Do you think this might make them feel a bit uncomfortable?

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Latest activity by Lapland2015, 1 June, 2016 at 10:57
  • Paula @ Ollievision
    Paula @ Ollievision ·
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    I think if you and your hubby attend the church then his family need to accept that it's normal for you to have a more "worship style" ceremony.

    I have photographed several Christian weddings that took the format you describe. Just pick popular songs that people coming from other churches will know!

    You don't have to pick any of the traditional hymns at all. The main reason certain hymns are consistently chosen for weddings is that the couple don't attend church regularly so pick songs they knew as children.

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  • DreamsComeTrue2015
    Beginner July 2017
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    He's not religious - it's just me that goes to church. He's really supportive but he will definitely not sing. He doesn't sing normally but there's even less chance of him singing worship songs!

    He told me just to go ahead and do whatever I wanted with the ceremony. He knows the format is more important to me than it is to him.

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  • Lapland2015
    Beginner December 2015
    Lapland2015 ·
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    I'm not religious at all so we chose not to have a religious ceremony but every wedding I have been to that played hyms I found no one sang along and it was just drown out by the organ so if it was me I would be inclined to do something like this as if it is multiple instruments it wouldnt matter as much if people didn't sing along. I went to a Christian concert years ago and the music was fantastic and really moving. If it's what you want go for it! I'm sure the church will advise you on how best to arrange it if it's a regular thing they do

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