Writing your own vows

Same venue/same register office

I asked our registrar for a copy of the ceremony. I don't know if this ceremony wording might be specific to our registrar or if it applies across the whole of Cheshire East though. Do you know who your registrar is yet? Does her name begin with T? If so, probably the same one and she will send you a copy of her ceremony wording on request, which includes the option to insert your own vows (which she will need to go through with you to check they are OK). If it's someone different, I would contact them directly and ask for their own ceremony wording.

I am happy to forward you the ceremony wording we got.

Ah no I think our registrar is called Sue, although I might be mistaken. she has offered in her letter to met with us or hold a telephone meeting, so I will arrange for us to do that as the booklet is so vague and we would both rather know what we are saying on the day to make sure it is right for us.

Thanks for the response, I will go back to the registry office and ask if we can get a copy of the ceremony wording, if it's easy enough for you to send yours across to me in the meantime i would be really grateful, but if you have to dig it out don;t worry about it, I am sure I will get a quick response from them! I think it is just other people worrying me who have got married recently who had to have all their readings/ vows etc confirmed weeks before the wedding - we only have weeks to go!

Have emailed the wording across.

Hmmm, we had two registrars (but both might not be actually called "registrars"). The person who conducted the ceremony was called Tracey. The person in charge of all the documents/signing was called Sue. I wonder if it's the same person?

Thanks for sending them across, very helpful! The lady is called Sue Welch, I looked at the paperowrk when i got home last night, she is the deputy superintendent Registrar so I bet it is the same lady, the one who deals with the legal side of it and oversee's the ceremony. I have emailed her anyway so hopefully will get a response back in a day or so.

Thanks for your help :-)