In 2001 I was sacked from a job for Gross Misconduct, not something I am proud of, but I feel the stamp Gross Misconduct is a little harsh for what it was.
Explanation:
I was working full time, studying 3 nights a week and working at weekend in a pub, I was a single parent at the time. I was called into school to say my daughter (then aged 7) was self harming to get attention form a teacher because I was never around. I was devastated and ended up on the sick from my full time job with stress and depression. I was still working the pub at weekends as my daughter was at her dad's and during one shift my direct manager walked in as she had been told I was working there, and demanded my resignation on the monday morning. As it happens she didn't give me a chance and I was sacked on the Monday as soon as I walked in.
Now I know I broke the terms of my contract and at the time I just didn't have any fight in me, so I thought it would be for the best as I could be at home with my daughter whilst she needed me there
I have had two jobs since then and have never had a problem, though I didn't disclose I worked at this firm I just told them I had a break from employment for family reasons.
Now here is the dilema. I am being made redundant 24th July, and I have found a job I really want. I downloaded the application form today to have a look and there is a specific question that asks if I have ever been dismissed from a job and on what grounds. I would normally omit the job as I was only there for 14 months, but some of the duties I performed are relevant for the job I am applying for. I was never asked this question on the application forms for the jobs I was accpeted for, so I didn't feel like it was a lie.
So do I omit the job history or do I disclose the truth and hope they will be impressed with honesty? I just don't want them to put the form straight on the 'no' pile, nor do I want to be found out in a lie.
Has anybody been in a similar situation or is anybody in HR that would accept someone who was sacked for gross misconduct?