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Beginner August 2023 Leicestershire

X2 maids of honour

Sarah-Jayne, 10 January, 2022 at 16:59 Posted on Planning 0 7
Hi all,


I’m just wondering if anybody else has had more than one maid of honour? I have 2 best friends who I just can not choose between so I’m thinking about asking them both. They don’t really know each other but I think they’ll work well together. Then we’ll have 2 other bridesmaids and a flower girl. What’s everybody's thoughts?

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Latest activity by Feltonrolfson, 8 January, 2025 at 06:14
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    VIP April 2022 Wiltshire
    Charlotte ·
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    You do you hun, no rules so whatever you are comfortable with. Or you could make one chief BM and the other MOH, but it really doesn't matter, as long as they are both there to support you that's all that matters.
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    Beginner September 2022 Buckinghamshire
    Chantel ·
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    Hey Sarah-Jayne,


    I have 2 MOH's! I'm due to get married in September this year and like you, I couldn't pick between them! I knew if I selected one over the other, one would be upset and it would most likely cause more harm than good.
    I've seen it as a really good thing too as if they need to do something on my behalf, they can discuss amongst themselves and work together - 2 is better than 1!
    Hope this helps xx
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    Beginner November 2023 Fife & Angus
    Nicola ·
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    I have also done this... I couldn't pick between them so having 2 Maid of Honours and 2 Bridesmaids! I personally don't see anything wrong with it – it's your day! xx

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    Rockstar July 2023 Greater Manchester
    Lisa ·
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    I’m having 2 MoH’s too! No bridesmaids or flower girls for me, but it’s just personal preference as we’re having a smallish wedding Smiley smile

    No way I could choose between them, they don’t know each other… yet, but they’ll be meeting each other in a couple of weeks and naturally have heard of each other for years. At first I thought I’d just draw up a list of what they could each help me with, but they’re both just super excited to help and are happy they have another person to help them too, so I’m thinking of staying chill on that front and letting us all meet first and go from there.
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    Curious July 2022 Surrey
    Emma ·
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    Have two, that's lovely! Do whatever you like, it's your wedding day and there are no rules! xxx

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    Beginner March 2020 Neath Port Talbot
    Sadiehalvorson ·
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    It’s great to hear you’re considering having two maids of honor! It can really reflect your unique friendships. Plus, with responsibilities split between them, they might even bond over the task, just like you might find interesting conversations on platforms like Omegle . Just ensure they’re both comfortable with the arrangement, as collaboration is key! Best of luck with your wedding planning!

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    Beginner August 2021 Cheshire
    Feltonrolfson ·
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    It's totally okay to have multiple maids of honour! It can actually create a great dynamic, especially if they complement each other. Plus, think of all the fun they'll have coordinating together! Just like the collaborative spirit in the Dinosaur Game , teamwork is key! Maybe you could create some fun activities for your friends to bond over before the big day—like playing the Dinosaur Game for some laughs!

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