I was wondering how many people here have a name plate on or by their front door. We've never bothered with one - when we moved in to our flat we weren't even engaged and having two names on the door seemed daft. When we got married we just never got round to it, it was never very high on our list of things to do with two children on the way.
My MIL thinks this is very very strange. She can't understand when we haven't got our name on the door. I think she thinks either I'm ashamed of my new name (I'm not!) or we're hiding from debt collectors! Now we've moved house, it seems logical to get a name plate as we'll be here a while. But the fact that MIL goes on and on about it puts me off! ? I know I'm being silly about it, but she asks EVERY time she visits (she comments 'no name on the door yet I see. That. Is. Ridiculous.' And she shakes her head and tuts.
To make matters worse, one of MIL relatives dropped by to see us, but because there was no name on the door, she left without even knocking! (this is despite the fact that she had the right address in her hand and our car, which she sold us, was outside!) Surely that's bonkers! Who'd do that? Just knock on the door and apologise if you've got the wrong house!
So a quick straw poll, please. Name plate or no name plate? And does it make us look like bailiff dodgers if we haven't got one?