Activity of Kitty Princess

Hi, Our venue manager told us on booking that they deck the venue out with a Christmas tree and decorations over the mantelpieces BUT last week we met up with our wedding co-ordinator who said apart from the tree, that wasn't the case and the brides...

Is this customary or cheeky? Are you letting your guests bring what they like, setting up a guest list or having a money, honey-moon poem? I hate feeling like I'm asking for things but there are so many strange expectations surrounding weddings, I...