Activity of HappyRedFlowers501

Hi, We are planning a chilled out day and don't want speeches, but my parents do (I know it is OUR day, so we should do what WE want, etc, etc). Can anyone think of a good alternative to speeches? Both myself and my partner would feel uncomfortable...

We found or perfect venue last weekend ( a small barn + chill out tipi in the gardens), and have just had the T+Cs through...music has to stop by 10pm and guests leaving at 11....as it is in a small village this is understandable....I just wonder if...