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Carebear.1981
Carebear.1981

United Kingdom · From April 2008

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20 September, 2008

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sensitive/personal - Domestic Violence
irishsorone, 24 June, 2010 at 15:36

Hi Basically, the short story is, i was with my boyf for nearly 2 years when he quite badly assaulted me one night! We had other problems in our relationship but we were trying to work through them as...

osbaldwick, tuesday 29-Jun-10 12
Dove
Hair colour, professsional or home dye?
Dove, 2 October, 2009 at 12:03

I've always had my hair colour done by a hairdresser but am deciding to feel brave and buy a home kit, mainly due to the grey showing faster than I would like and to save some money. So do you go the...

Sunset21, wednesday 7-Oct-09 7
Amethyst
Divorce & property - any experts?
Amethyst, 17 July, 2009 at 16:48

A friend is embarking on a divorce - she is the respondent. They own a flat together which is very likely to be in negative equity. He wants to stay in the flat and to have her name taken off of the...

Amethyst, sunday 19-Jul-09 4
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question about a child wanting to change their name.
fiorelli, 4 July, 2009 at 15:59

Does anyone here know anything about the legalities of a child wanting to change their name? Basically, my 9 year old son has started referring to himself as 'L** Mysurname-hissurname' instead of what...

Carebear.1981, saturday 4-Jul-09 1
Pittabre
If you are divorced...
Pittabre, 3 July, 2009 at 15:48

... where do you start with everything? What do you need to do and how? And can you recommend any websites to help? TIA.

Carebear.1981, saturday 4-Jul-09 13
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Does anybody know Liverpool?
Ruby 2, 21 March, 2009 at 07:13

If so, where is nice to live, and where should be avoided at all costs? We'd be looking for a friendly, family kind of neighbourhood with decent schools and nice houses [probably 3 bedroom semi, or...

Carebear.1981, monday 23-Mar-09 13
Becca
How many of these 100 books have you read .....?
Becca, 4 March, 2009 at 14:59

A friend just posted this on her Facebook page, apologies if this has been around the block a million times, but I hadn't seen it before, and can't find the original link on a quick BBC search - I...

Dooby, thursday 5-Mar-09 84
KB3
It never ends & I don't ever think it will - Update page 4
KB3, 15 January, 2009 at 09:33

So, as many of you know we had some trouble back in October with the ex, her boyfriend being a druggie, and the girls coming to live with us for a while. It was hard work for us, my husband especially...

Clare _ M, friday 16-Jan-09 48
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AIBU / Are they allowed to do this?
Scarlet Fifi La Voom, 14 January, 2009 at 21:04

We are moving in 2 weeks, and as discussed on here before the letting agents didnt tell the land lord until I phoned him and told him 2 weeks after we handed our notice in. Its now been nearly 4 weeks...

Sparklywug, friday 16-Jan-09 24
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How do I find a solicitor (injunction)
Steph73, 13 January, 2009 at 10:15

As the title says really. Things have escalated between myself and my husband to the point that I am living in fear of him coming in the house. I cannot carry on like this. How do I find myself a...

Steph73, tuesday 13-Jan-09 5
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Mother let girl sleep with man
Mistletoe_Tiger, 7 January, 2009 at 15:06

Not sure how I feel about this one. I know we have the murder or accident debate going on and wondered what the views on hitched would be of this. I can understand where the mother is coming from but...

NickJ, wednesday 7-Jan-09 48
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Do you "look down on" people for their job/career?
Sparkly Boots, 16 December, 2008 at 15:32

I was thinking about this the other day and was moved to post because of the Sun topic posted by "The 12DaisyDaisy's...". If you are friends with someone who works in a cafe or shop, or is a cleaner...

blossom, thursday 18-Dec-08 119
Sah
A bit of a 'length of string' q about solicitors
Sah, 16 December, 2008 at 16:27

I'm v excited as H and I have just had a cheeky offer accepted on a house... But I'm struggling with solicitors - when we bought a flat in Manchester we just picked a solicitor out of yellow pages...

hope, tuesday 16-Dec-08 6
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Do party feet and other gel sole things work?
SAM83, 2 December, 2008 at 19:40

Any ideas, never used them before but on an all day thing on Saturday and will probably stand up most of the day so was thinking of buying these. Do they work?

Champagne, tuesday 2-Dec-08 6
sweetersong
Injured Pigeon
sweetersong, 28 November, 2008 at 20:03

My husband and I were going out earlier (about 6pm) when we saw a pigeon on the side of the roast just sitting there, think he may have been run over :-( Wasn't sure how badly injured he was, but went...

sweetersong, saturday 29-Nov-08 11
sweetersong
I want a wii fit!
sweetersong, 23 November, 2008 at 16:47

I am going to throw an adult tantrum soon. I have been trying to get a wii fit since May/June and there is never any in the shops when I can get one, and all the ones on fleabay are going for over the...

jellybelly., tuesday 25-Nov-08 23
Smiley
ghd - are they worth the money or are there good cheaper alternatives
Smiley, 19 November, 2008 at 20:01

My straighteners have decided to break, just in time for for party season, and me getting a short haircut which requires straighteners to avoid looking weird. Anyway, I really want some straighteners...

anjumanji, thursday 20-Nov-08 24
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Divorce costs - help!
Janjabean, 17 November, 2008 at 09:48

Morning everyone. A little help if that’s ok, please? This may be a very stupid question but I’m a bit flummoxed by what I’m reading online. I’ve been trying to sort my divorce for ages now…I asked...

Tanta, monday 17-Nov-08 5
NickJ
Food ponderings
NickJ, 5 November, 2008 at 15:10

Re the buffet thread, but not aimed at the OP as such, when did people* become so fussy about food? when i was younger and my mother cooked, there was no variety offered, it was "this is for dinner",...

Pint&APie, friday 7-Nov-08 141
clair_de_lune
Following on from the spud post- fillings?
clair_de_lune, 5 November, 2008 at 13:12

What is your favourite jacket potato filling? Yesterday I had porn potatoes- baked beans with sausages and grated cheese. I'm usually a bit of a potato purist though, just some salt, butter and...

chids, wednesday 5-Nov-08 10
MBK
Pet Insurance
MBK, 4 November, 2008 at 11:46

Has anyone got any reccomendations? I have 2 kittens that have cover from the breeder but I need to get cover sorted to follow on. Pet Plan have quoted £20 a month for the 2 of them. TIA E

Monkey Mavis, tuesday 4-Nov-08 15
St. Knickerless
Slightly irked by freecycle... and i dont know why...
St. Knickerless, 30 October, 2008 at 15:36

I have advertised a brass double headboard to be taken away. I have had the following replies.. Hi [name] I would so love to have your headboard if by chance it is still available. I am disabled with...

Stelly, thursday 30-Oct-08 13
KB3
Questioning doing the right thing - I need to offload
KB3, 29 October, 2008 at 09:44

Sorry this may turn into a long waffly post but I need to get things down and off my mind. My head is about to explode. As some of you may know, we have my step daughters staying with us for the time...

Carebear.1981, wednesday 29-Oct-08 17
NumbNuts
Cats not coming home - how long before you wory
NumbNuts, 24 October, 2008 at 09:42

I haven't seen my adult cat now for about 2 or 3 days (can't remember which morning I actually last saw her). A neighbour thinks he saw her 2 days ago, but can't be sure of the day either. I am kind...

monkey fingers, sunday 26-Oct-08 20
Carebear.1981
Am I the only person who feels like this?
Carebear.1981, 21 October, 2008 at 22:12

Anyone else have a really fantastic wedding day, but think that despite the hype it's not necessarily the best day of their lives?? I had a brilliant time, but it was just a day. The service was...

Duck, wednesday 22-Oct-08 41
Carebear.1981
Anyone been to Jamaica?
Carebear.1981, 14 October, 2008 at 10:12

Hubby and me have decided we want to go to Jamaica in November next year and I'm looking for hotel recommendations? Thanks guys ?

Hitched in Paris, wednesday 15-Oct-08 11 1,130
Carebear.1981
I'm married
Carebear.1981, 12 October, 2008 at 12:38

Hello all I've been married for 3 weeks now and it's fab. Sooooooo relieved all the planning is over and done with!!!! Here are some piccies for you...

AussieAngelxxx, sunday 12-Oct-08 3 283
HeidiHole
Karin Slaughter - Skin Privilege (Spoilers)
HeidiHole, 16 September, 2008 at 09:47

What! WHAT! After dragging myself through this book as if it were a cold bowl of porridge until it got exciting two chapters from the end, she does that on the last page? Seriously? Gaaaah, I was so...

Zo�, tuesday 16-Sep-08 21
tahdah
Is there such a thing (shoe related)...UPDATED
tahdah, 16 September, 2008 at 12:13

...as a clear strap that you can wear with a court shoe/peep toe to help you keep the shoes on? Or do I have to make an appointment with Dragons Den/American Inventor!! A bit like those clear bra...

tahdah, tuesday 16-Sep-08 11
Iris
Splendid names from the beautiful baby competition
Iris, 15 September, 2008 at 21:58

In my local paper. I must be a terrible name snob as I am wincing at some of these Tia'H-La'Shae, Italee, Dior, Mckayla, Cordi-Leigh, Porsha, Sharntay, Mazee, Dylanjay, Charlierai, Ne'Vaeh,...

Kaz_76, sunday 21-Sep-08 224
Consuela Banana Hammock
Any dog people around - question about fleas
Consuela Banana Hammock, 16 September, 2008 at 10:23

<deep breath> My name is CBH and my dog has fleas. Two weeks ago when Woody was having his coat trimmed, it became hideously obvious that he had a flea investation. We immediately insecticided...

Consuela Banana Hamm, tuesday 16-Sep-08 7

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