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RedKitchie
RedKitchie

United Kingdom · From July 2011

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Happily married 🎉

3 August, 2013

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*Mini*
Bt- is it a lifestyle choice to have children?
*Mini*, 5 August, 2013 at 08:36

Inspired by a Facebook status I have commented in where simibe has told me that having children is not a lifestyle choice and that it's what we are designed to do. she continues to say that if...

1234ABC, wednesday 7-Aug-13 40
Pompey
I guess that's it then
Pompey, 4 August, 2013 at 00:16

H is out tonight and he's been feeling poorly so I text him to ask how he was feeling, he said not good so I offered to pick him up. They're all going home in a press booked taxi at like 4 or...

Mellow_Yellow, tuesday 6-Aug-13 145
RedKitchie
Inflamed spot - help!
RedKitchie, 30 July, 2013 at 22:20

I have a cystic spot, deep under the skin but inflamed and big. No head to squeeze yet. What can I do? I have 3 days til the wedding. I know this is wedding related but think I'll get the advice I...

Simon and Alison, sunday 4-Aug-13 29
kharv
What are your grammar cheats?
kharv, 1 August, 2013 at 11:21

I've never had a problem with there/their/they're and your/you're etc but there are a few that don't come naturally to me and I need to think about them. I'm a bit of a stickler for grammar, though,...

venart, sunday 4-Aug-13 37
ForTheLoveOfMrsBrown
Books and censorship
ForTheLoveOfMrsBrown, 29 July, 2013 at 20:35

Apropos a discussion on another forum... How do you feel about children reading books that contain bad or inappropriate language? I'm thinking about works of literature here, not trashy books that...

RedKitchie, thursday 1-Aug-13 49
clarehj
Fancy dress ideas beginning with *C*
clarehj, 30 July, 2013 at 21:49

Hi Otters' My friend is having her hen do in August. Criteria for fancy dress Saturday is anything beginning with *C* I only know the bride (and it's a surprise for her) but some of the other girls...

Skeptical78, wednesday 31-Jul-13 29
Skeptical78
OH refusing to do family stuff
Skeptical78, 30 July, 2013 at 15:32

Am I alone here? My family are pretty close and always have been. I have a brother and two sisters, who I would consider my best friends, after OH. My parents divorced a few years back and we have...

Holey, friday 2-Aug-13 28
cookiekat
Dress me!
cookiekat, 29 July, 2013 at 12:14

Help dress me Otters. I brought this dress for a wedding in a month Looks like this on the model but in ^^^ colour I stupidly went shopping for shoes but left the dress at home and had completely the...

cookiekat, tuesday 30-Jul-13 12
Icklefee
Job offer dilemma - Please advise!
Icklefee, 26 July, 2013 at 21:18

I have just landed a new job, good money, fab perks, lovely company (I worked for them years ago in my home town) and I'm very excited. However, they didn't ask in my interview why I'd left my old job...

RedKitchie, monday 29-Jul-13 24
M
Do girls look older these days??
MrsMeldrew, 29 July, 2013 at 14:34

I am flabbergasted at how old kids look these days. I was with my friend the other day and we bumped into her cousin and her twelve year old daughter. I asked her who the young girl was after they had...

RedKitchie, monday 29-Jul-13 17
Kjay
I HAVE A START DATE! TRAIN DRIVING RELATED!
Kjay, 29 July, 2013 at 15:41

OMG OMG OMG!!!!! HR have just called! I AM GOING TO DRIVE TRAINS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Starting training on September 19th - 4 days after getting back from honeymoon!! So much to do! I need to get our house...

Kjay, tuesday 30-Jul-13 53
Tizzie
Weekly Good/Bad Thread!
Tizzie, 26 July, 2013 at 13:22

Didn't see one and I was worried it wasn't Friday! Good: I have a non-interview meeting thing on Sunday which may lead to a new job. Good: Hs birthday tomorrow, going out for a meal, getting a lovely...

Kjay, saturday 27-Jul-13 31
Kjay
too early for cake?
Kjay, 26 July, 2013 at 08:38

Hit 5000 posts! I need to get a life or do some work...or maybe not!

*Funky*, friday 26-Jul-13 19
RedKitchie
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RedKitchie, 26 July, 2013 at 13:26

Duplicate

RedKitchie, friday 26-Jul-13 284
EmmaM88
Family rant
EmmaM88, 26 July, 2013 at 07:35

I have heard a few whispers through the family grapevine about the family not being happy in our choice of wedding location. They are assuming that we would be having it where I was brought up, we...

EmmaM88, friday 26-Jul-13 22
woowoo83
My Something Old (flash)
woowoo83, 26 July, 2013 at 12:06

Just had to share this! I've just been to visit my mum and thought I'd ask if I could raid her jewelry to see if I could find something as my something old, she's not really the jewelry type so I...

*MM3*, saturday 27-Jul-13 13
RedKitchie
Can't find my shoes...
RedKitchie, 25 July, 2013 at 19:18

I went to my fitting today and now can't find my shoes. I may have left them at the lady's house but I also could have driven away with them on the roof of my car as I think I recall standing at her...

RedKitchie, friday 26-Jul-13 7
ATB
Mini
ATB, 25 July, 2013 at 11:01

Talk to us, how is Harry? x

Jaysmonkey, monday 29-Jul-13 62
emilyvportlock
wedding report with flashes :)
emilyvportlock, 24 July, 2013 at 21:58

Friday (the day before) I went into town with my mum and nan to get last bits then went to dinner with them, I felt pretty normaal all day apart from the odd butterflys when I realised IM GETTING...

emilyvportlock, thursday 25-Jul-13 8
Arquard
Films that are so bad, they're amazing.
Arquard, 23 July, 2013 at 18:01

You know the ones... they're truly awful, but you could still watch them over and over. Snakes On A Plane has to take that title for me. Incredibly awful but I still get really excited when it's on...

F&GBride, thursday 25-Jul-13 27
Kentish Gal
Pets *flash*
Kentish Gal, 24 July, 2013 at 11:20

I saw the hamster thread (weirdly cute) and thought a pets flash might be sweet. Apols if there's one kicking around already. Shall I start? Oh, go on then!!

Holey, thursday 25-Jul-13 41
2013_Bride_
I'm getting married next week..
2013_Bride_, 22 July, 2013 at 13:30

Oh my god. ? I cannot concentrate on ANYTHING! I'm useless!

MrsJones2Be, wednesday 24-Jul-13 26
J
am I making a huge mistake?
JHenson1234, 19 July, 2013 at 00:09

Sorry guys but this should be the happiest time of my life, shouldn't it? But I feel absolutely miserable. I feel like im making a huge mistake. My oh makes no effort with the relationship, with me...

slou90, monday 22-Jul-13 50
Zoomo13
senstive issue - depression at its worst
Zoomo13, 19 July, 2013 at 14:28

My oh has just admitted (even though i knew) that he has hit rock bottom. (he suffers from depression and had a massive breakdown 7years ago) he has admitted he has got to the stage where he cries for...

Kjay, wednesday 31-Jul-13 34
2013_Bride_
How would you handle this...
2013_Bride_, 9 July, 2013 at 14:23

BM dresses may need some alterations. To be honest, we have demolished our budget... I never asked them to pay for the alterations though (but never said I would pay either). Would it be completely...

Italybride14, tuesday 9-Jul-13 24
*Funky*
The weekly good/bad thread!!!
*Funky*, 5 July, 2013 at 09:32

I can't believe nobody started one of these made me panic that it was not in fact Friday! ETA Good- it's friday Good- My PPI refund hit my account yesterday. Good- bit of retail therapy this evening....

flowersinherhair, saturday 6-Jul-13 31
ForTheLoveOfMrsBrown
How much tax would you pay...
ForTheLoveOfMrsBrown, 1 July, 2013 at 15:10

...to live in a country which ran like clockwork? Apropos of pondering fortnightly bin collections and an ongoing office discussion about free education, and ignoring the nitty-gritty of...

RedKitchie, tuesday 2-Jul-13 35
leni-lw!
medical negligence
leni-lw!, 2 July, 2013 at 20:24

Whats your view on this? we had a meeting today with oh and some other people, and they were saying that we should claim because of the initial *** up of the docs, lack of communication, lack of...

clarehj, thursday 4-Jul-13 15
Pook82
Glastonbury - anyone been?
Pook82, 24 June, 2013 at 11:32

So we're off to Galstonbury on Thursday morning and I'm trying to figure out what to take with me! Question - even if it doesn't rain, will I still need wellies? I'm thinking with that many people...

Erin8, tuesday 2-Jul-13 14
Beez
Do you speak your mind here?
Beez, 28 June, 2013 at 10:53

See, in life I'm generally a 'if you can't say anything nice don't say it at all' person. But today, I read a thread, write a post, and deleted it. Because it's a awful suggestion. I know I would be...

Little Pixie, monday 1-Jul-13 30

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