My 2 sisters are my bridesmaids and have the capacity to drive me insane. Due to this, I don't want either of them on the top table for fear of slapping one of them! My planned argument for my Ma (I'm anticipating that she will not take it well) is that it wouldn't be appropriate to have both of them on the top table, and I'm not prepared to favour one over the other and appoint one MOH (and so sit that one at the top table).
Just wondered if any of you plan to/or have had untraditional top tables???? In other words, how do I get rid of them legitmately?! I need a well thought out plan of attack in advance of this inevitable conversation!