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Clairy
Beginner October 2003

A question about sex - not TMI

Clairy, 21 November, 2008 at 10:25

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Do you remember the first time you slept with your OH? Does he? I quite often think about it ?? but was surprised to discover that H doesn't remember it at all. I must have been good, eh? ?

Do you remember the first time you slept with your OH? Does he?

I quite often think about it ?? but was surprised to discover that H doesn't remember it at all. I must have been good, eh? ?

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  • Zo�
    Beginner July 2009
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    It was our second date, I cant remember much about it oddly as it wasnt alcohol induced. I do remember more from our first date we didnt actually have sex then but it wasnt far off.

    Ive just asked him and he remembers it

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  • Zo�
    Beginner July 2009
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    Im now in trouble for saying I can't remember much as he thinks that means everyone will think he was crap ? (he wasnt)

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  • rupertcat
    Beginner January 2008
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    It was about 2 weeks after we first dated. I was sporting a fetching Mr Men plaster on my shin where I had cut it shaving my legs earlier in readiness for the date!

    It was crap!

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  • Doughnut
    Beginner June 2008
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    What a nice thread.

    I remember it, as I was still upset about my ex and wondered if it would be weird sleeping with someone else. H is a shy bloke and was physically shaking when we went to the cinema on our first date, so I wondered what he'd be like in bed. I was surprised he wasn't shy at all! I'd been seeing him for a month* and we'd been to Pizza Express. I remember wondering if you could faint lying down ?

    *I was an utter slapper for 10 years up until this point ?

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  • Wuzzle
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    We both remember it well as it was both our first time. We'd only been together 3 weeks and we'd just come back from a school party (we were also only 16!). Our friends had come back with us to H's house and then one of them decided that they should leave to give us some 'time alone' *wink, wink, nudge, nudge*.

    They left, H asked if I wanted to go upstairs and listen to some CDs ?. The next day his friend told our maths teacher exactly what we'd been up to ?

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  • SophieM
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    Yes, I remember it well. ?

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  • Orly Bird
    Beginner April 2007
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    Yup - because it was the same night I lost my virginity. ?

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  • Mal
    Expert January 2018
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    Yep, i remember it. I am now past remembering the exact date ? but I know roughly when it was.

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  • hazel
    VIP July 2007
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    I just asked him and he said "vaguely" ??

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  • Eric
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    I'm I the only one whose had the sex before the first date?

    It really breaks the ice............................

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  • Melancholie
    Beginner December 2014
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    January 29th 2000. We'd been randomly snogging in clubs whilst drunk for about 9 months, but only officially a couple for a week. I'm sure he remembers; it was his first time.

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  • Eric
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    I love your signature! ?

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  • Melancholie
    Beginner December 2014
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    Thanks! His name is Calvin ?

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