I'm sorry for going anon, but I've got a bit of a difficult quandry.
A female member of my extended family (B) is married to a prison officer. I'll be honest - I've no idea what his salary would be like, but I do know that hers is probably around 19k. It is the second marriage for both of them; he supports his two children and she receives some basic support towards her children. Her mother also lives with them, she doesn't work and I think has limited savings from the sale of her house about 10 years ago.
(I'll get to the point in a minute! Promise!)
So, I'd say they were 'comfortable' financially, but not much more than that. However, what really concerns me is how they are funding their actual lifestyle - in addition to their home here, they have a house in France, they have 2 new cars, have just redecorated their downstairs rooms, new wallpaper, carpets, and furniture (and not in a 'basic' fashion, the suite was about £2000), and they have two foreign holidays.
This post is really my mum's fault - she was pondering about it the other day, along the lines of "when did they win the lottery?", and it got me thinking that they must be really good budgeters or something, but then I remembered he was a prison officer. From my own line of work, I know that one fraud indicator can be people seemingly living beyond their means, and now I keep returning to that thought - how possible would it be that he's supplementing his income somehow?
I really don't know what to do. Is it really any of my business? I would have no idea if B would know about it if her H was fiddling something or being paid off, or if she did, would she just take the money and enjoy it?
I know of a couple of routes I could raise a concern through - but I would hate to do so and cause unwarrented stress if there isn't anything going on, maybe they did just win the lottery?!
Any suggestions?