Absolutely in shock... ** UPDATE PAGE 7**

So sorry to hear this KBS, how terrible for you. Have myself been in a similar situation and know exactly how numb you must be feeling right now !!!

Big Hugs xxx

OMG I feel sick to my stomach for you babe! I don't know what to say, except that I'll be thinking of you and we'll be here for you to sound off to whenever you need xxx

I have been keeping my eye on here for you all night and hoping you came back saying it was all a sick joke. I am so so sorry you have to go through this. Lots and lots of hugs sent your way. I wish you the best of luck whatever you decide to do from now xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I am so very sorry KBS. We were all hoping that it was a nasty joke. You take care of yourself xxx

I was so hoping it wouldn't be true. I'm so sorry you have had to go through this. We are all here for you.

xx

Well you must now take time out and think about what to do next...cry, scream throw things if you have to hun....but do what is right for you...I have been there before and it is a hard place to be in...but dont back down, dont let him walk all over you....you are calling the shots now....he is just gonna have to sit and wait for you to decide if you stay or go.

Just remember you got the power of hitched....we are all behind you and i am sending you hugs and hope that you can get some sleep tonight...take care sweetie.

xxxx

It doesnt help I know, but you have my deepest symapthy and I will be thinking of you during this horrible, horrible time. Stay strong, take time, talk it through with people you trust to listen but not influence you, and you will come to the right decision. xxxx

To sleep in separate beds while living together and to now know he was having an affair the whole time - the only good thing is that he just couldn't sleep with you while doing that. Not totally heartless like some guys! Not much comfort. I'm really sorry to hear that.

Take your time to think about things. Tell your family what's happened or speak to one close friend. You don't want everyone knowing your business. You have a lot of thinking to do, He has treated you like s***. You deserve better. Take time out and massive hugs to you.

THE EFFING B!TCH HAS JUST CALLED ME TO SAY HOW GREAT THEIR SEX LIFE WAS/IS....

Just dig the knife in deeper love! :'(

I'm so very sorry sweetie.

Sadly I do know how you feel as I've been there.

I am sending you a massive hug.

xxxxxx

She's full of s**t!! She's just pissed off cos he's finished with her. What a crazy heartless b!tch!!

God I'm so angry and upset for you!!

Oh hun, so sorry to hear that. As others have said, take time out and make the right decision for you.

I'd ignore the latest text - sounds like her marriage is coming to an end and she's lashing out, going down fighting so to speak.

Stay in touch here, we're all behind you xx

Such awful news my thoughts are with u sending big hugs not that they will do any good like the others have said take some time for yourself and figure out whats best for u the support is here if u need it xxx

Bloody hell not the update we wanted for you. Dont rush into anything. Take some time to talk if out then get some space. Big hugs darlin xx

Send the police round to her house for harrassment. That will wipe the grin off her smug little face.

Im so so sorry to hear this xx big hugs xxx

I jumped to the update hoping for good news.......nothing we can say will make the hurt any less but remember we're all here if you need a rant or a moan. So sorry KBS x

Dear god KBS I'm so gutted for you, I hope you have some good friends to help through this (aside from us weirdie internet ones) I hope you are able to take the time you need to think this through and do what is right for you. And as for the other woman - block her - you don't need her trying to upset you more, spiteful cow xxxxx masshoosive hugs Hun xxxxxxx

So sorry to hear this K. I really hope you take the time to decide what the best decision is for you. xx

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this KBS. Thought I'd see if there was an update but gutted at what I'm reading. Take all the time you need to decide on what you're doing and if you think you can start fresh with him. All the very best to you. xx

K - I've been reading this from the beginning but like everyone else, was really hoping it would be a random idiot and that there was no truth in it all. He's a total ................ (please insert as many words of your choice as you need) and I really hope you can deal with this.

We're all probably thinking you need to steer well clear and that you're much better off without him but at the end of the day it will be a tough decision and will require a lot of strength. As you know, we're all here for you with whatever you need.

Oh god kbs i'm so sorry. I feel so angry and hurt for you, what an absolute dick! It sounds like he's sorry he's been caught!

I really hope you make the right decision for you to make you happy. Will be thinking of you. x

So sorry to read this KBS, been there and survived. If you need a chat you know where I am x

I logged on this morning for an update, and didn't expect this. I'm so sorry for you.

As Mrs wills says, at last he has had the decency not to share the bed with you.

If I were you, I would grow a pair of 'cahonas' and tell him "he can't have his cake and eat it and to leave the premises while he still could walk".

On the ferry we would take great pleasure in taking his 'man berries' off his body and making them into a pair of ear-rings! ?

My sympathies go out to you at this time, but please come back and let us know what you decide.

KBS, I'm so sorry to hear this. Make sure that whatever you decide you do what is right for you. At this stage it's your well-being that is most important - screw what he wants. If he wanted his thoughts taken into account he should have thought about that before. Take your time and don't rush into any decisions. As someone else said, you're calling the shots now. We're all here if or when you need us. x

Oh KBS,

I am so so sorry to read this, I hope you can both work it out. xxx

Really sorry to hear this - was hoping it would turn out to be just a mistake. ?

KBS Im really sorry to hear this news your heart must feel broken in 2, and for her to call you like that and start going on about her sex life just proves what an evil heartless witch she must be!!!

Take some time out for you to decide what is right and surround yourself with family and friends who care, On a positive at least you found this out before you actually got married even though I know does not make it an easier. xxxxx

Hi KBS I know exactly how you are feeling as the same happened to me a week before I was due to give birth, all I can say is it takes a very long time to get it all out of your head, but you do get over it (i know it doesnt feel like that at all right now). The first thing I done was got him to call his phone supplier, change his number, I snapped the old sim then I entered all his mobile numbers back in so I new exactly who he had on his phone, sounds harsh but if he truly is sorry he will do anything, maybe you should change your number too? Rise above it all, it makes you stronger ?

Oh god this is not good news.

I'm so so so sorry for you.

I suggest maybe you take a bit of time off work and go and stay with somebody for a few days, maybe your parents, or some friends so you can get your head together.

You know we are all here if/when you need to chat

x

I'm not sure that there's anything that can be said to ease your pain at the moment, but I simply couldn't read and run. You will be in my thoughts over the next few days, and I hope you can find the future that is right for you - be that with or without your OH.

huge hugs ? xxx

My heart goes out to you, like everyone I was hoping it would turn out to be nothing. I can't begin to imagine how you are feeling - I know though what I would do, and thats have nothing, nothing more to do with the ****. I, as I'm sure many will be thinking of you, do let us know how you are when you feel up to it x