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Em1982
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are wobbles contagious?!!! do i look silly broad- flash ****

Em1982, 28 March, 2011 at 10:23 Posted on Planning 0 35

I was fine a few minutes ago and replying to someone elses post about wobbles has made me paranoid about me again!!! i love my dress, i know its the one for me, its on order anyway so theres nothing i can do about it. HOWEVER i am broad shouldered and naff all hips on me and im paranoid the style of the dress emphasises my broadness. ive lost 2 stone but could do with losing more off my back, ive been hammering the gym to try and tone but to not much success. so be honest, do you think i look awfully broad. if i do its ok cos i can just wear my veil all night!!!



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Latest activity by MonaLisaBrideToBe, 31 March, 2011 at 12:51
  • *libby*
    Beginner June 2011
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    I'm having dress wobbles now...thats amazing!

    I especially love the top lacey//sparkly part and it looks great on you. x

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  • Arquard
    Beginner May 2011
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    From the back it does draw attention to your shoulders but I only notice that they're broad because you pointed it out!

    If you're really self-conscious, would your dress work with a petticoat underneath to floof it out a bit (that's the technical term) and give some balance to your hips and shoulders?

    p.s. From the front it all looks sensational!

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  • BustyB
    Beginner June 2012
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    You look gorgeous! I dont think the style of the dress emphasises any broadness, I think it gives you a really lovely hourglass figure! Love it! Smiley laugh xxx

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  • Little Madam
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    My first comment certainly wouldn't be about any broadness - you look like your barely a size 10?

    My first reaction was your waist - considering you say you have no hips, I think the dress gives you a fab shape around there.

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  • nicnol
    Beginner October 2011
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    WSS - Gives you great definition on your waist!!!! Sorry to start with the Monday morning dress wobbles!!

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  • Em1982
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    Thankyou ladies, i think i do need to stand up tall with my shoulders back more, i think im hunched a bit. i wish i hadnt fallen in love with a dress that draws so much attention to my back but i cant help it!! no i cant put anything underneath either unfortunately, ill attach a full length photo


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  • Em1982
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    Eeeek ive bought my jewellrey and now youve got me scared!!!!

    this is my necklace however instead of the jewel dangling down its a pearl. its from debenhams. i have the pearl earings to match and a bracelet that looks like those swirls on the necklace all the way round.OPINIONS!!!!!!!

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  • Em1982
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    As for my hair i was thinking of having it curled to the side like this, tell me waht you think

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  • FutureMrsRon
    Beginner February 2012
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    Permission to steal this hairstyle? ?

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  • Arquard
    Beginner May 2011
    Arquard ·
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    Sorry, but your full length photo just makes me want to shout BOOBS and be green with envy!

    If you stand tall and keep your shoulders back, it'll minimise your shoulders anyway but I seriously doubt anyone will be thinking anything except WOW.

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  • Em1982
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    FutureMrsRay permission granted, its luuurrvelrly ey!!

    sammy jay pmsl!!!! you lot are so funny. if only my boobs were on my back no one would notice if i was as broad as the thames dont you think!!! when they get my dress into the shop in june july ill have a 'stand upright, shoulders back' photo and im sure itll make me feel better!

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  • G
    Beginner July 2011
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    Em you have an amazing figure and the shape of the dress really suits you. jealous much!

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  • K
    Beginner October 2011
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    Em, you have an amazing figure. The dress is stunning on you. I'm jealous as you have no tummy....

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  • WhiteRose84
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    Em1982 - please don't have a dress wobble! You look fantastic and you have an hourglass figure to die for!!!

    I'm small and have never had curves (or boobs!) but people always want what they haven't got. Your figure looks fab and your dress is amazing on you! xxx

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  • Em1982
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    You lot are all so nice thankyou!! please will you move to west yorkshire and be my new friends?!!!

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  • SarinaCain
    Beginner March 2011
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    You look absolutly wonderfull. Trust me no one will see any flaws.

    They will think you look stunning...and you will.

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  • M
    Beginner May 2014
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    Em - you look absolutely amazing!! I hope when I get to dress hunting time I find a dress that makes me look as gorgeous as you!

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  • FutureMrsRon
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    I live in West Yorkshire ?

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  • WhiteRose84
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    Me too! ?

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  • K
    Beginner October 2011
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    I'm in East Yorks.xx

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  • O
    Beginner October 2011
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    NOOOOOOOOOOO ! I THINK YOU LOOK GORGEOUS !

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  • LeeLee :)
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    My gawd girl, it all looks lovely ? No need to worry about your broadness, I hadn't noticed, I was just looking at the gorgeous detailing on your dress and how it fits you, perfectly.

    Stop worrying X

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  • Sherrie H
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    Stop wobbling! You look stunning!

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  • Em1982
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    I must admit ive never had so many compliments and im a bit overwhelmed!! thankyou all so much, i was telling my OH last night how nice and supportive everyones been!!

    so you yorkshire ladies where abouts are you? im in wakefield x

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  • FutureMrsRon
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    I'm in Leeds ?

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  • Em1982
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    Em1982 ·
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    Can you email me cos i cant email you? where abouts in leeds are you, i used to live in adel so know north leeds quite well!

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  • Em1982
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    Then i lived in morley and churwell. been around a bit!!

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  • FutureMrsRon
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    I've tried to send you an email, don't know if it's worked!!

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  • overtherainbow
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    Your dress shows you have an amazing hour glass shape - most women would die for! Gorgeous dress - is that Celebrations shop in Ossett or Oops a Daisy? It sure looks familiar!

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  • Em1982
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    Hi rainbow, thankyou, its from hoops a daisy....you can tell you're in the wedding industry even knowing where i got my dress from! mind you they do seem the most popular shops in wakefield

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  • WhiteRose84
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    I thought I recognised the place too!

    Although when I went for a dress fitting - I wasn't so keen. The service wasn't great and it was like they weren't 'interested'.... Maybe I just caught them on an off day? xx

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    In my personal opinion (so please feel free to ignore it!) you don't look too broad at all. I'd say the dress is a touch too tight at the top though and looks like its pinching your back and giving you a teeny bit of back muffin top. For what its worth, I reckon it's your boobs making it a tad tight rather than any fat or flab (as your figure is to die for!)

    All that said, I would not have noticed if you hadn't mentioned it and your dress is AMAZING! If its really bothering you, and to be honest I wouldn't, there are quite a few back toning exercises that you can do with just some dumbells. If you have a personal trainer at your gym then maybe get them to show you and if not do a bit of a google search.

    I've been using the 30 day shred too which has loads of back work in there so that could help you out if funds are tight (only £5 online) I'm also massively broad in the back (way more so than you!) from a childhood of gymnastics and swimming butterfly!

    Hope that helps, but mainly stop stressing, you look fab!

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